Ok, so i have written a few posts and topic's, mostly questions about stuff. This is another one of these i'm afraid, i am just really unsure of what i'm doing when with a girl (in terms of chatting to her)

Ok, First off, i act confident and i will talk to whoever i'm not afraid, but inside i am not confident at all, i'm insecure of how i look, and how i act and what i say. Real deep down i know i'm not bad looking (When i see ugly fuckers i think "Thank God I don't look like him")

I am naturally a witty person, and will pick up on things, and want to say something, sometimes i hold myself back because i think , "Well that isn't funny, or they won't laugh" When i say it, People laugh but i have a bad feeling that they are just being polite. I also seem to mock and make fun alot of the girl, in a jokingly way, but it may come across as offensive, yet they laugh. But then i'm thinking, hold on a minute, are they once again just being polite by laughing and actually on the inside think "What a Dick, why did he say that" They never say this to me, they seem to laugh nearly all the time, yet i still get a bad feeling... Then i feel that am i just being friendly here and not creating sexual tension, so i then start kino, (Hands, lower back) and sexual innuendo's (For example: We were talking about scarfs, no idea how man, but she said i hope tht doesnt't strangle me, and i then reply with a Sorry, I'm not into them kind of games, with a smile and a look) Too try make sure she is feeling it, then i normally don't think that she is so i don't go for a close...... What i'm saying is i feel like the only way i can talk and what i concieve as flirting is Making fun off them and i suppose teasing them, not neg's as they have a back handed compliment in them " Your a Model, A hand model?" With this your still agreeing that with a part off her body she is worthy to be a model, whatever body part they may be. I do not do this, i just seem to mock like i said earlier, Is this a bad thing, and should i not mock as much, (It's just me, i like to make fun and have a laugh) But sometimes i feel like i am being a dickhead, that i cannot go about 5 mintues with out making a "Funny" Comment otherwise i just get bored. Does anyone else act like this (The making fun and mocking, Not negging) I know when i pull a few more times my confidance will rise, but i am unsure if iam acting right.... (Being me) I feel like people may not like me if i mock too much, (i have never gone too far,that someone becomes really angry)
Sorry for the long winded story just need to get it off my chest. :L

Please comment on my situation, i appreciate the help, if i'm not the only one who does this, and if it works for you. Do you care about whatever the others think???

Also my bad if this is in the wrong section.