hey there i'm new here, little bg on me, i'm 17 and still in sch. Just had a drink in the sch canteen with a gal i liked today, whom i had been trying to attract online over the past few wks. After 2 chance meetings, and texting her, "if i meet u a 3rd time, 'd that be 3rd time lucky?" she replied smth like "yeah, i'll be in the canteen" so i was really elated and thanking the PUA gods that i'm finally getting a date, or pseudo-date if u were stricter.

Anyway here's the main part: While having a drink with her at the canteen, we were fluffing(cuz i was nervous, first date rmbr) and the convo drifted to why her class didn't go on an outing. And she went smth like, oh, she didn't wanna go, and her class didn't wanna go as a result of that (i.e her influence's strong). Now omg that struck me as cocky funny(i know it doesnt sound funny in 3rd person narrative, but it was then), which was what i shld have been doing instead! What shld i have done?Did i lose control then? Was laughing and playing along a DLV? Anyway we laughed awhile, fluffed, and before i could reel out any material she had to go, (possibly) for a legitimate reason, but chances are this date didn't turn out too well for me anyway. What went wrong?

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Laughing at her jokes is how you build good rapport, so it isn't DLVing yourself. I love girls that are C&F, its a massive turn on for me. When they start doing it, then it gives me the green light to be truly C&F and generally we get a really good flirt going on. As long as she isn't showing you signs that she isn't interested, and is showing IOIs instead, then that's just another good sign IMO.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

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thx, sounds good then, do u think i should 've negged her, or are we already at the comfort building stage whr negging's not req? thx for replying!

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yeah I to want to know when negging is no longer required. I'm totally at a loss for when the right time ceases.

I find the cocky/funny girls take more negging, because they are negging you back with their jokes and so you need to play along. Basically you'll know when you need to stop negging, by her no longer testing you with questions, or laying you up for saying something that would blow you out of the water. I don't think negging should ever completely stop, it just lessens.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

If a gal C&F you then you just reply with a C&F .. just a stronger and funnier one...... THE most important thing is to KINO her while you do it...... You can also NEg her but i have gathered that a combo of C&F and kino is the ultimate on this one.......

and yo one more thing... ALWAYS BE in COntrol .... easier said then done i know... believe me though been in this PUA thing for 2 years almost and COntrol is so Under stated...

Bless , TP

THERE ARE NO LAWS IN SEDUCTION!

Where does it say that girls cant game you back!?
Your not on the losing end, play along! You have the frame cus you know exactly whats going on. You just have to lead with a dew things like k-closing etc.

Dude shes gaming you...shes flirting and your asking whats to do! Flirt back! She likes you!

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