Hi guys,

few nights ago I approached hb5 and hb6 for a lighter (mine was in my pocket), they seemed slightly drunk outside the uni bar havin a smoke and a laugh with each other so the mood was good, after asking for a lighter I opened with "hey, you look familiar, are you jessica?", she replied "jessica?!? no im not jessica" and i said "thank goodness, i thought you're jessica, I haven't called her for 2 weeks"....they laughed a little but I didn't get a positive vibe, they seemed very interested in this jessica girl and actually believed it. I kept changing the topic to keep a conversation going and negged, all I got back was "you're mean" a few times from her and her friend but at least the questions they were asking me were IOIs (the usual, where r u from, whats your name? etc), when i negged one of them on her name, she asked "are you doing that thing called GAAAME? where you try to make a girl feel insecure" (probably the strongest, hardest shit test in game), I froze, completely wasn't expecting that, I found it hard to defend myself and stood there like a fool talking my way friendly, at least they knew i was there for the duration of my cigerette and finished with "lovely meeting you girls" and left

1) A great experience, knowing this could happen now, embaressing but funny
2) I learnt that gaming is about taking those routines and planting them to your personality to become NATURAL with them to make it more comfortable and life much easier, staying in your comfort zone and they would seem genuine
3) some girls doooo know about game, I bet a girl is reading this post right now, they spread the word faster than bacterial reproduction

What do you guys think of this? I wanna read comments and similar past experiences

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You can really respond with anything, as long as you don't lose your frame and it comes off as if this question doesn't bother or phase you at all.

"Yeah, how's it working?" [as cooly as possible] and then changing the subject, would be a fine response, imo.

or

"Do you think every guy who talks to you is trying to hit on you?"


I'm curious to see what other good responses people may have...

I really like this one totally turns it around and you weren't even doing a noticeable routine so easy to brush off.

I like those too.

To OP. Why the heck would you neg a HB 5-6? They don't have the self esteem of HB9+ so all negging is doing to them is putting them on defensive. Learn to calibrate.

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Drink me, make me feel real
Wet your beak in the stream
Game we're playing is life
Love is a two way dream

Haha if the girl is suspicious and shit test you like that, you should tell her something like: "isn't a guy with game much better than a douche bag? It is an honor to be picked up by a pick up artist you know"
There is nothing to be ashamed of in what we do

Cheers

thanks lads, you're right about not negging 5s and 6s, but i found out that i can tease nicely so its a natural neg, i like those responses but I admit I froze for a little bit...just be careful peeps, isnt one of the rules "Expect the best, prepare for the worst" - Neil Strauss?

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Inner game is ALL you need, then create your own routine