ok this routine is to add to the social comfort conversation skills, if you're completely stuck for stuff to say use this combined with the other routines I have up 3-routines-to-guarantee-you-social-proo ... ht=#424895 then you should be having pretty good social comfort conversations,

this is not supposed to be said exactly as writen and it will change with the different situations you are having, as each week and situation ] is never the same even if its similar, but the over all theme is the same, you will hear this type of conversation said in every single bar and club in the world and just about every night you go out. Combined with my other routines posts you should be able to build a pretty good social circle of bar acquaintances,

if you are opening groups it will make things easy because there will be other people adding to the conversation and if you use my "How to not run out of things to say post how-to-not-run-out-of-things-to-say-vt82141.html you will be able to improvise and start moving off into other conversation topics

Inject your own personallity into this and work on you body language and you will increase your over all confidence as you gain experience


the social bullshit talk routine

what have you been up to tonight? e.g. continuation "we're trying to keep it civil tonight but its probably going to end up a pure session like last week we (got really drunk and partied whatever)... what ever your story was about the last time you where out, maybe you didn't go out so you can joke about how you are going to make up for lost time

(you can use this tease if you wish to, ask them which one out of the group is the biggest "mess" or what ever you call them in your country, we call them bombscares

what are you drinking tonight you can ask GIRLS to taste it if its some crazy cocktail, you can just pretend you've never heard of it even if you have, you can talk about your likes and dislikes e.g "awe I can't drink that shit anymore, I'm a complete lightweight now like last week me and my friend went out to... and I ended up shots..." (long story short I got shit faced at a friend to 6 in the morning)

where did you guys go before here/where else do you guys go talk about where you think is good/bad and why, you can talk about your bar routine "yeah that bars pretty good, we usually start off at... then go to... because theres usually a good crowd then move on to..." you can even weave in do you guys come here offen for logistical information if you are after some sort of girlfriend or for day to purposes

the 5 questions covered,

what have you been up to tonight?

what are you drinking tonight?

where did you guys go before here?

where else do you guys go?

do you guys come here offen?

these are what is called afc questions but thats fucking bullshit, it is just normal social conversation, the difference with this sort of stuff is if you have nothing to say after it, your whole presence is boring and your body language is displaying needyness,

this is where body rocking type shit, multithreading and cutting to other people come into play, you can use this stuff to start to practice your routines and game, you can see how far it can take you in terms of the amount of stuff you can talk about, but over all this shit gives you time to see what works!!!

you can make this last anywhere from 30 second to 30 minutes but in the words of AFC Adam http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnNmqCJEEgA < (he explains it here) then you become more of a performing monkey, so I would say 10 minutes max is all you need to start adding in game

stick that in your AA pipe and smoke it, now you have no excuse to not approach and if you still don't you will be sent to the games you useless fucking program!