Hey guys.
I have been closely following the Mystery Method, and was able to get down many of his topics (Opening a Set, Attracting, Negs, Building Comfort and Seducing)....basically techniques that get the girl rapidly.

Yet, I find myself unable to fluff or sustain a meaningful conversation with anybody under the age of 21 (in fact I am simply disinterested). Yet, I know that human beings as a specie are NOT boring, so it HAS to be MY fault.

I live in Manhattan and am only sixteen, and therefore very inexperienced, but am willing to learn and study my way through, failing as many times as necessary.

It would be fantastic if I could get some "to be interesting" advise from those wiser than myself (at the same time benefiting the community).

Thank You

-Ecudes.

P.S. Tips will be applied to real-life (non-highschool) situations.

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The Game Rules! are...

O.K., very nice question, this is usually the problem a PUA has after Approach anxiety, keeping the conversation intresting.

Here are the Basics, If you Say something once, a person will say, 'that's intresting', if you say 10 differant things, they will say, 'that person is intresting.'

So what you need to do is memorize 10 INTRESTING FUNNY stories about yourself. If you can't find them about yourself, one thing you can do is buy the world records books, find an intresting record and, voila.

I can't stress how easy this is, EVERY person is intresting.


After finding these 'stories,' make it a point to practice them. what makes a story especially strong is, 1. Your Tone. 2. Your facial expressions. 3. Your hand motions, or body language.

Also, tell this story to your family 2 or 3 times, this way you have practice BEFORE you go to school.
I always do this with magic tricks, so i can perform it at home well, then at school.

Summerized.
1. find intresting story
2. Practice it to yourself, keeping mind towards tone, facial expressions, and hand motions.
3.Practice it in front of family members.
4.Practice in front of local friends.
5. Practice in front of AMOG's
6. PERFORM in front of HB.

Hope i have helped you.

Everyone has something interesting to talk about, but some people you just can't get to talk. I will drop these people and let them know they bored me and they if they can interest me, that I would like them to find me. Not rude, just let them know, I treat it the same as educating an AFC, they don't understand what they did wrong. Sometimes this will bring them out, sometimes not. If you are constantly having issues with this, then you are not being interesting enough to make the people you are talking to think about interesting things to say in response, so do what Lucky says.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

I like to control the conversation.

I tell the story, I do the talking

they just respond and look at me in amazement.
Then when I isolate, I ask alot of questions, tell DHV stories.

If you have trouble fluffing, give yourself a false time constraint cut it short, save what connection you've made, number close and see if she is more interesting on a day2

this also saves you time/boredom.

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You can call me Ace...

"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined."
- Henry David Thoreau

i have this problem and i thought if i could just manipulate till i thought of a topic i'd be all right but .....not so much. i end up hearing her stories and then i comment on them and i comment well leading her into other stories and such so the convo. goes for a while pretty well but after a while they catch onto the fact that they still know nothing about me + i doubt i've made an impression by asking her a million questions.

my main problem isnt that i dont have a life and cant talk about anything but that i dont find much .........interesting enough to talk about. like something will happen and the next day i'm back to nothing interesting happened all week.

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You know what your problem is?You're putting the pussy on a pedistal.