There is this HB9 at my school who i opened a few weeks ago and haven't really gamed since. I've seen her in passing a few times and I realized after each interaction that i was trying way too hard to get her attention. Looking back on the interactions i realized that i was going to just ignore her and let her fight for my attention, I didn't actually think it would work but i thought I'd give it a try.

So today i was sitting in the lobby of the cafeteria in my college and i see her walk in with a friend. I am sitting facing the door and she and her friend walk in and start walking right at me towards the cafeteria. I look at them, they look at me and i just look the fuck away like neither of them had any affect on me whatsoever. They walked by and i just smirked because i knew this HB9 had to have been thinking "why didnt this bastard smother me with attention again?"

I met my buddy just a few moments after the HB9 and her friend went past me to get in one of the TWO lines to pay for the cafeteria. I immediatley go to the line that the HB9 IS NOT in and my buddy is like "lets go get in the other line to talk to HB9, unless you're scared" he had no idea what i had been working on, so he exchanges formalities with her and i ignore her again.

I go to the pizza line and start talking with my friend and giving off the vibe like im a fun person and im just talking up a storm to everyone but her. she comes up behind me and opens me saying something about how to get the pizza without wrinkling it, and as she's saying this shit she is rubbing her body against mine, solid kino. I walk away and then see her a few moments later talking to an HB6.5 that is stalking me (not as cool as it may sound) i open HB6.5 with some funny shit and HB9 says
HB9: hey i got my hair dyed blond
Hijx: oh yeah, whats your real hair color?
HB9: its like dirty blond bla bla bla bla
Hijx: shhh you talk too much *i proceed to ignore her again and talk to just HB6.5*
Thats really it for that interaction.....she sat about 3 tables away but was facing me so every once in a while i'd notice the AFC's she was with were boring her so i'd yell soemthing like "hey HB9, you look bored" "the parties over here" she gigled a few times but never came over. Anything else i could do to build attraction wth this girl? i really wanna close her

Be careful not to push her to far back, it sounds like you've got her attention now and she's working to get it so reward her every now and then and throw her a bone. It sounds like you've done a good job so far now it's time to move on in the steps.

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~Surreal

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."

Yeah i was about to say... ignoring her is okay if your in a conversation and you freeze her out or something to that effect. But dude ignoring her just makes her job easier dude.