Ok, I get the idea. C & F helps a LOT during the attraction phase. no doubt, you have to neg a girl, make her laugh, DHV whatever that is and most importantly make her laugh (yes I know I repeated it). So I don't normally no much laughter, esp with people I don't know really well.

So, I'd appreciate it lots and so would a whole bunch of guys here if we could post as many C & F examples in here to help those that need it, including me. I got this girl I wanna get I know how to open I jsut don't know how to make her laugh, and that's attraction.

Is this considered C & F?
"Let me tell you about this friend of mine, he was 'trying' to give me tips about courting basketballer girls. So he went to google to search for it told me to shave my head bald because it will look like a basketball... Honestly, do you think that helps?"

I don't know. Could be me, but I don't see that as cocky or funny. I see it as try hard which of course is DLV.

C&F is all situational.
It's when you absorb what the other person said, sending it through the C&F filter then launch it back at them.

C&F is an enhanced version of not giving a fuck. Its when you treat an attractive women just like one of your buddys only there's a hint of playfullness to disqualify bad intent. It's when you can insult them, call them on their BS, tell jokes, and generally keep the mood happy. I think it actually forces the HB to keep on her toes, and flex her game because she's always in a battle of wit with you. So she finds it "socially fun".

My Example:
HB9: "So where are the other 2 stooges (my co-workers)"
Me: Fuck off and go roll in barb-wire with Magic Johnson. *Said slowly with a smile*
HB9: *mouth drops open, covers mouth, laughs for 1 minute*

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Style of Game: Pragmatic Pimp Approach

That has got to be the best explanation of C & F I've seen or heard.