ok, so basically i was with a girl last night in her flat (shes an 8, blonde) , i was quite switched on and alpha even though there were a few people in the room and i was going pretty heavy on the c/f which she was really digging, she was giving a lot back which i absolutely loved, had a good bit of sexual banter going on, good kino, threw a lot of negs at her (I love your necklace thanks!! yeah it looks like anal beads, lol) and had her qualifying herself all over the place. ended up kiss-closing with 5 lies game (she lost on #5, i had to do 'what did u say i didnt hear you?' cos she didnt fall #3 or #4), i left it open at the start of the game

me: if u'll lose u will owe me a favor

plays game

Her: So whats the favor? what do you want me to do?
Me: What do you want to do? #smiles, triangle looks then kiss#


So basically that was pretty good for me, but if i call do i still play it c&f or do i need to get more serious? Will it seem odd if i just switch it off completely i'll seem like a different person? not rweally sure how to play it i dont want to be c/f infront of her forever it gets a bit tiring after a while

Yes you will seem like a different person when you turn it off. You'll become a person she can control with her sexuality and you'll have lost everything you've built up. Plus it will send off alarms that you're putting on "an act" (shows underlying insecurity DLV)

I'm a heavy C&F person myself. But I know when I hit the point of too much, but I ride that point the entire time I'm with someone. Checkout my latest lay report. It'll show you how C&F works from start till end:

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But keep in mind, I'm mercilous during my game because I controlled the situation the whole time.

yeah i know what u mean, iwas thinking just to sort of tone it down a bit, since we've kissed and i got her number i dnt wanna end up cast in the cocky funny role forever, cos its really not me, i can do it for a while and im pretty convincing, but its an act at the end of the day. this girl is potential g/f material as well so at some point i'll have to start being more 'me'

thanks for the reply, bumps for more

Bump because i need this also. I C+F a lot, even though im not really like that. It's easier to open sets and keep them entertained with it but I find that I usually take it too far and make it impossible to build comfort and eventually I get stuffed into the LJBA (Acquaintance) zone, and I become "that charming asshole".
I need to know a good way to transition from C+F to the real me which is intellectual,