i wanted to make a routine that did not require the boldness of for instance the "apocalypse opener"
a routine that any ol average joe could use provided he has just a little bit of self confidence
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Ok lets get started, say for example you are a social gathering e.g. a party
you see your target or target group you walk up and say hi or what have you.
now at this point you point out an AFC looking kinda guy somewhere in the room and say something along the lines of "i feel so sorry for guys like that"
naturally they will enquire into why? at which point you explain something like " he seems like one of those guys, who is very funny and likes to joke but hides behind these traits to hide his lack of confidence with people"
(showing that you are "able" to read into a person could further her interest )
this is the part where you DHV by showing how much of a confident guy you are
you create a game where you ask her which of the three guys she would go for if they were to approach her. (you act out all three of them starting with the "nervous AFC guy" then the "Jokey friend zone guy", then you say would you rather go for the role i play
(chance to DHV)
Example:
You: ok which kind of guy would you go for out of these three
You (AFC): erm erm erm would you like to erm do something some time
HB: not that guy he seems a bit creepy
you (jokey friend zone guy) : lets go bowling or something itll be really fun + we may get to see a clown
Hb: haha id be his friend but i would not go out with him
you: haha the problem with guys like those is that they have no confidence to just be themselves. confidence is everything . now if i were to approach someone, i would not hesitate, or hide behind silly laughs or gimmiks. (!!!DHV!!!) i would simply go up to her/you and
(insert opener for example apocolypse opener)
provided you have used kino during this routine you now have somewhat of a free pass to escalate and be creative as she should now be comfortable enough to allow you to perform any routine/opener as a "demonstration". it also gives her (and if in a group, her friends) an excuse for you to be doing this, reducing the chances of them dragging her away or her offering resistance to avoid looking slutty to her friends
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THE HIGH POINTS AND LOW POINTS
HIGH POINTS
1. it eliminates the pressure of going in with a hardcore opener (great if you are not uber confident or dont have the best inner game
2.it allows you to dhv by showing off how confident etc you are.
3. it eliminates that fear some people have of coming across as creepy for example when using the apocalypse opener
Low points
1. at present i think it makes the comfort level too high reducing the tension
2. you must use kino when demonstrating these "persona's" otherwise you may be unable to escalate
Like I said I am looking to fine tune this routine so all ideas and or constructive criticisms are welcome.
CHAT
