I believe the quickest way to build attraction and sexual chemistry is through teasing women. I would rank teasing as 90% of my entire interactions with women. If a man can learn how to tease a woman, he can almost always keep her attracted to him. This is especially true of very attractive women due to having men always supplicate to them in the past. A man who teases a woman like that is a big change and can instantly get her attention.

Teasing works wonderfully on the theory that people want what they can’t have. A man who teases is showing apparent disinterest, but not disgust. He is still humorous, playful etc....all good qualities.

The easiest way I’ve found to tease a woman is to ask her questions and make fun of her answers in a playful way.

However, once you get to know a woman (perhaps after a couple meetings) you can seriously increase the attraction and sexual chemistry by saying one thing and doing the other. Say you want to be friends but hug her a little to tight and passionately. Say you don’t think you are a match for her yet surprise her with a kiss a few minutes later. This usually only works if you wish to pursue a relationship with her and have already had a couple meetings with her.

It’s important for guys not to “be in their head” when trying to tease. The whole idea of teasing is playful, spontaneous observations.

NOTE: Some guys take teasing way to far to the point of actually insulting a woman without even realizing it sometimes. A woman will not respond favorably to that. You must learn how to tease and not insult. The key is to include humor and playfulness to your little verbal jabs you throw at her.

So true! I've noticed everything is all in the framing too. How you position and tell a girl something is far more important than what it is you're telling them. Be playful, C&F, and let nothing bother you, and you're golden. Bust their balls occassionally though, and stay alpha!

Are you referring to being on a touchy subject, for an extreme example, let's say a weight. We shouldn't jab at that clearly or anything that will "hit too close to home"?

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