I thought it'd be dope to put together a list of all your best "replicable" value-demonstrating games, gambits, stories and tricks here.

I'll start off by listing some of my best ones (if anyone needs an explanation, holler).

I also think it would be prudent of us to explain how you transition into it..

Some of my favorites are:

* Style's Right Brain vs. Left Brain palms routine

* Teaching her how to tell if someone's lying (not the lying game though...I'm just uber-talented at explaining it...the "that's why they do what they do at airports is a crucial "reason why")

* Three adjectives to describe your favorite animal (or what you feel when you're at the ocean, on the beach)

* Eliciting values (except I call it "finding your core value, that one thing that will always fulFILL YOU" (emphasis on the "fill you" of course, lol) mainly because I feel like a lot of chicks may have heard the term "eliciting values" and know where it's from.

I do it like this too:

1. Think back to the last week or so...when did you have the *most* fun?

2. Tell me about it (just talking about the activity or whatever it was). FYI, if she says something sexual there, just whip out your Dick Butkus cuz that chick is coming in HOT.

3. Now, I know this is *a challenge* (point at yourself there), but if you had to describe the feeling you got when you were in one word, what would it be?

That word is her core value.

Repeat it and point to yourself when you do as you explain to her what that means.


I transition into all of these by being really excited about it (which, sidebar, I am. I dig finding out about other people and seeing what's really going on underneath. KEY point there...this is all coming from a place of congruity..I am sincerely interested in all of these things, which is probably why 1) I like them so much 2) they work so well for ME) and I say this:

"I just learned this really interesting from ...here.." and you're off.

Social-proofed people could include anything that implies:

-you work out
-you're ambitious
-you have money
-you're close with your family (could be your cute little niece)
-you know high-status people
-Etc.

Smell ya later,

WorkEthic