Hi guyz, I`m in very difficult situation. The things are like that - I have private english class 2 days in the week. I have a HB10 in the class, ultimate fashion model HB10. So every two days in the week we are there. She is living not far from my home. Every day after class we are going home together. I think I`v build confort, but the thing that scares me is the attraction. She gives me lost of IOI, and from that I think, that she is attracted. Her BS is not so high (for the models), so it was easy to biuld confort.
The things I need is HOW to show her that she means something for me ?

The things are f*cked, because I don`t see her as HB10, and that makes me little nervouls.

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kino man... fucking kino...

You're probably already in the ljbf zone. Call her a brat, get her in a playful mood. Tickle her, smack her, ect. Then run some shit like "wow you smell so fucking nice, I'm trying so hard not to kiss you"



Work it

Yeah, you`r right, I need to make kino. Have to destroy the anxiety.
However, tnx B Rob

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Well, maybe you aren't right.

If there is one thing I noticed here, it is the over-LJBF'ing. I know it is a problem, because I had this syndrome too.

Imagine this; Guy meets a girl. He stops using canned material but finds out that the girl likes him even without it. He thinks to himself "OMG this is great" and her value goes up very high. Suddenly, she is very important to him. He would normally be just her friend in hope he would get some pussy. Later (perhaps MONTHS later). he would get LJBF.

Now this is very known story, right? THAT IS THE PROBLEM.

Because now everyone at the beginning of a relationship, during comfort building, gets a little bit "freaked out." That is the moment you are supposed to close; #close, k-close, f-close, doesn't matter. Now is the moment. But you think to yourself "There aren't enough IOI's" or some bullshit like that. And he misses it.
He spends all night woke up. Tries to think out why didn't anything happen. And he blames it on LJBF. But it isn't the problem. The problem is in his head.

Simply said; he doesn't have enough balls to close. So nothing happens. From here on, the more opportunities you miss, the more will woman see you as a friend. But instead of blaming it on yourself, it is easier to say "It was her fault!". She didn't kiss him. And insecurity stays and grows even more.

You have probably never thought that a woman may be even more insecure than you are? That SHE doesn't want to mess anything up? That she is afraid of kissing you - although if you did it, she would happily oblige? Well think about it.

Best way to find out if you have an LJBF relationship is to listen to her. Is she whining? Controling you absolutely? Talking to you like you are one of her stupid, non-important friends? That is a bad LJBF. Better drop that one.

If on the other hand she respects you, likes you, listens to you and together you share a valuable friendship, that is a good thing. Increase intimacy (make it "grow") and it will be OK. She respects you, she likes you. Make her jealous; if it hurts her (and it surely will! You are spending your precious personality with someone else!) she will prolly realize that there is something. Something more than just a ordinary friendship. But it takes time. This stage is really long to prepare and hard to pull of.

So I say, give her a chance. She gives you IOI's; probably talks to you and laughs at your jokes. Next time, mention some great event that is happening in your town (or something new, or anything interesting you can think of) and say that you are going there, and you would like for her to come with you, so you could get to know each other better. This line works like a clockwork man; if you get the girl interested in you, say "you seem an interesting person, I would like to get to know you better." It works. Just make her interested enough.

Carpe Diem.

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The things are very crazy you know... just how Paetar said. I feel that she`s something special to me, not just purfect HB10.
I guess I will fallow my heart !
The confusion now is big but I hope soon to know the answer, and I will know it !

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kino.. dhv.. and neg her... if shes a hb10 .. than im sure she gets guys liking her or wanting her all the time .. and now she has a buddy .. ioi's can just b her way of making u jump through hoops so dont go all "goofy" lol if she does give some .. if u r already her friend by freezing her out sometimes .. neg + takeaways .. u can make her feel fear of loss easy and u can kino around with her .. i was in the same situation as u wit a girl .. first she hada bf .. so i had to take care of that i used that time to go from A1 to C2 they broke up within a week or 2 of us talking .. but than i was just stuck in the comfort zone and i had to get out of there .. kino + negs + takeaways and dhv works try it.. but do it properly ...

and than we hooked up 'yadda yadda yadda'

Hey guyz, I`m just coming from class... yes I was with her.
All was great... lots of laugh. For 2 of us was great ! I`ve made good DHV and finally I`ve made kino... my adrenalin now is HIGH.
Tonight I`m going sarging for first time.
Tomorrow I will go at one friend`s birthday. She is at birthday too (not the same), so tomorrow night we will see each other at the disco.
So, wish me luck for tonight first !
Hey guyz, TNX for all because I`ve gained self-confidence.

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