i was at this soccer game today and this girl who i had already been involved in a "did u seen that one girl" type conversation with my roomates was also there playing, now i know that almost all the guys i know had and were already spending lots of time flirting and showing her attention (she a new in school) i'm and architecture student who also works as a desiner at a arch. firm so i dont have to much time socialize during the school week but i know that she had already noticed me peacocking when ever im around campus (girls have always responded extremly well to my style). as we were playing i noticed that most guys were avoiding or going soft on her even though her soccer skills were actually very impresive (playing like and sometimes better than some of the guys that were there). also notice that most guys would try flirting with her when the gameplay got slow. i decided to play it cool and not give her much attention unless it was to rough her up a little when ever she got the ball and i was near by. as the game went by even though we played possitions that required us be far from each other, she was closer and closer to my area until for the rest of the game she was within 5 feet or less from me. i toyed with her a little with my soccer skill and made her chase me around most of the time, someone end up kicking the ball preaty far from the field and stopping the game for bout a min. i made eye contact with her and while we waited she opened me by asking me if i spoke spanish and knew what "cola" meant. i replied with a very cocky smirk and a look that said " why would u ask such a ridiculus question." i sure she knew that i understood her question but i decided to have fun and tease her with some cocky & funny by taking bout cola the drink and not "cola" that in spanish means butt or behind. she explained that she had heard some of the spanish speaking players say it and was wondering what it meant (150% sure that she already knew what it meant). while i tryed to make the best of the minute i had i was cockedblocked by someone who butted in and quickly started to try to flirt with her. the rest of the game was just me making her chase me when i had the ball or roughin her up when she had the ball. whe the game ended i left to go get a drink and hang out at a friends dorm. when i left and was walking toward the parking lot to head back to my aparment when i saw her and 2 other friends sitting in a beach talking, one girl which i also knew (there was also bout 6 guys tryin to talk to her), as i aproached them i said "cola" several times, she turned around and responed at me by mimicking what i had just said. i decided to direct my attention to the friend we both had in common and ignore her (the 6 cockblocker where also part of the reason), after a brief chat i left without saying good-by to the girl i was interested in. i was about 10' from them when she realized that i had left, she blurted out to me this very cute "adios," i turned my head and just gave her a very cocky smile while i continue walking..............

MY QuESTION: theres this party this weekend that i was actually not planing on attending but i know shell be there.. any ideas on how to close now that i feel like ive built enough attraction, or should i have her chase me instead?(remember she has many guys chasing her), and also handle all this cockblockers who even thought they have burnt them selves out are still not willing to leave just yet

thanks

c-los
(who after 2 years of having stepped away from the game is now making his way back to the winning team)

Sports:During my AFC day (I'm now at least an rAFC), I once used sports to build an our-world type rapport with a girl by ignoring the game, and talking to her(neither of us were fond of sports). I didn't realise it at the time but I was building great rapport, and demonstrating value with my sense of humor(hers was almost exactly the same). Later found out I could have k-closed her easily, but never realised the signs, and had to wait 2 weeks before I got that close. Terrific personality, that girl had.
*goes misty eyed*

Your story:I think it's time to go into A3, letting her qualify herself to you. Chances are, if you head to the party, she will end up opening you or you opening her with something about soccer, and all you have to do is slip in the line "you were pretty good", with a smile. The idea is to make her feel your attraction to her is justified by more than her looks when you go for that close. That way she won't see you as desperate or sleazy. Then you can continue this into comfort.

Good luck man.

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Definatley run with the line negsta said, tell her you thought she was good BUT theres plenty more that you could teach her. Do this with a smile (cheeky prefferably) and if shes into you, she'll think of it as an inuendo. She'l probably make it clear to you if she does think its an inuendo, and if she doesnt, you can atleast arrange to teach her those extra skills at a later date. This ones in the bag if u play it cool and go with the cocky funny route.

-crowbar