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This is the biggest problem with newcomers to pickup.
Show interest once you get ioi's.
Don't act like you have nothing else to do if you're asking for a day 2. A day 2 should not be a date. It should be a meet up. You should already have plans, and invite her to meet up or tag along so if things don't go well with her, you can pick up more girls and use her for social proof. In turn, she may become jealous and start fighting for you. This is never a bad thing if it's the girl you really want anyways.
Think of the position you put yourself in when you ask a girl out on a date before giving her any screening (i use a day2 as a screening to see if the girl is fun or not, and to see if she's the jealous type.) You put her above you by saying, "I don't even know you and getting to know you is worth my time and money before i figure out anything about you that would warrant this." It's DLV.
Now put yourself in her positon at this point. If she's asking you on a date, that's where you are. You already have the upper hand. There's no need to push her away. If you push girls away they're just going to go away. Get to business. Plow.
Kino escalation and qualification are going to get you laid. The only girl that will fall on your lap is a stripper.
What i'm worried about is that if i show too much interest, she may get bored and turn away. Or perhaps is it somewhere along the lines of showing interest by going out with her, replying her texts, but still push-pulling, showing that you have other girls, and playing hard to get.
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