Rate yourself

field tested routine: qualification

tell you want to play a quick little psychic game with her. tell her the game involves her thinking of something that you ask her and you'll guess what it is she's thinking. (remember to smile all the way through)

Then ask to 'rate herself', but dont tell her what she has to rate herself in terms of. Because she doesnt want to sound big headed but at the same time doesnt want be perceived at 'bad goods' she will pick either 6 or 7 , but it's usually 7.

the benefits are:
it will make her feels emotions inside which is always good
she is qualifing herself to you by picking a high number
but it also an indirect neg because you know she wont pick numbers like 9 0r 10

i like it! very good routine.