Email Subject: hello

I met you yesterday at your bar and even though we spoke briefly I had to get your email.
You're a pretty girl...but beauty is common. Join me for a cup of coffee/ tea one of these days. I'd like to find out what you have going for yourself besides your good looks.
-signed my name-

- what is your opinion on this guys. Too cocky? I find girls giving out email much easier. I somehow wanted to convey to her that her looks are not the only reason I'm interested in her and I tried to have her qualify herself.

What seems to work better, a phone call, a text message or email? Do you guys tend to use cocky-funny in messages? Does game change for hired guns like bartenders, etc..if so, any good links on that topic?

- Do you guys prefer a more neutral email/text like "hey...it was nice meeting you yesterday...join me for coffee/tea...we might just make good friends."

- I guess I'm still unsure what are the right steps after you get the email or a phone number or does it largely depend on your game at the time when you got her digits.

Any comments appreciated.

Crazie Legz