Lead off of a discussion of awkward people

You: You know when two people are walking in the same direction and they turn but they both turn into eachother?

Her: yea

You: i know exactly how to prevent it!

Her: how?

You: its hard to explain let me show you

Her: k

You: stand there and start walking towards me!

(walk towards each other and bump) (kino yay!) (act completely surprised after the bump)

You: omg you are the only person that this didnt work on!

Her: hopefully she laughs

haven't field tested but will today lol

Nice routine, you put some thought into this. I can see why you would use it for kino, however... i wouldn't personally use this.

I make an effort to be more animated and talk with my hands more when I talk to people. I also make an effort to touch everyone in the group and be that touchy person. Now, when you have your hands out in front of you gesturing as you speak it's easy to reach just a few more inches to kino on the arm or shoulder, etc.

When you do a routine like this she is going to be asking what was the point of that. It could have an adverse reaction on several girls, in they think you don't have what it takes to escalate normally. I can understand your hesitation about kino it feels awkward at first. Just remember these tips...

- keep your hands in front of you gesturing so you don't have to move your arm far to kino.

- Never put your hands at your sides and then kino, it's a big movement and more awkward.

- Never ever look where you are touching, this adds to much value and gets to be a bit creepy.

- Start touching early in the interaction and keep it going. Touch everyone in the group at some point. This demonstrates this is just part of your personality. Start off with quick touches with maybe the back of your hand, then your palm, then later letting those touches linger.

- Touch the shoulders. They are a great place to check for compliance. If you go to shake her shoulder real quick and she moves with you, she's loose, this is a good sign she is comfortable with you, and you can move right into a hug if you want. If she is tense and doesn't move much the n you know you have some work to do. BODY LANGUAGE DOESN'T LIE!

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