I came up with this one a little while ago and it’s worked to perfection.

Everyone knows about spooning and how girls love to do it when they feel cuddly but going from light or normal levels of kino to a spooning situation can be a little awkward and may be a turnoff to the girl if done incorrectly. Furthermore, spooning creates an intimate cozy setting of full body contact that can be really arousing and can serve as an easy segue into a k-close and further seduction thereafter. I created this gambit to remove the discomfort and allow for a slingshot effect of erotic kino into seduction.

It's a play on role reversals. Normally the man is on the outside with his arm over her and his chest and groin in contact with her back and ass...aka the big spoon position. Alternately the girl is on the inside...aka the small spoon.

1)I tell her that I have a secret. (sparks intrigue). When she askes what it is I'll say "I'm a snuggler”. She’ll laugh (it’s a cutesy vulnerability ploy)

2)I’ll tell her to “Come over here and spoon with me.”

3)If she comes right over I’ll say “Oh there’s one more thing…I like being the little spoon so don’t try any funny stuff…I’m not that kinda girl.” (vulnerability/funny/compliance) If you see any resistance to the “come spoon with me” I’ll quickly disarm with similarly saying “Don’t worry, I’m very particular about spooning…I get to be the little spoon...just try not to get too handsy” The fact that I’m a bigger guy makes the whole thing all that more ridiculous and funny…after all, my nickname is Kohzee.

4)When she buys into it she’ll struggle to get her arms around you b/c she’s probably unfamiliar with the position (I really don’t know why its so hard for them haha). I usually act like I just can’t get comfortable and say “You’re actually really bad at this”

5)Then follow it up with the clincher and say “Here...let me show you how to do it. (switch spots)…That’s much better.” Now you’re control and getting great kino high on the escalation ladder, she’s more comfortable and compliant simply because she did it to you first so it doesn’t seem too large of a kino leap to make it awkward for her, and you can transition into seduction quite easily seeing as she’ll be turned on.

It’s my go-to move in terms of seduction transitioning at home. It’s especially good when your watching a movie/tv on a couch or bed because you’re naturally going to be laying and facing in one direction (it’s another psychological excuse for the girl so that she can justify it easier). Clearly you wouldn’t be able to use it in a bar/club but you could set it up with the “I have a secret…I like to be the little spoon” line at the club then capitalize on it when she comes over.

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