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as i was studying for accounting i got side tracked and started thinking about boyfriend destroyers, dont ask me why.
so we all know the basic concepts of boyfriend destroyers:
1) never directly put yourself up against the boyfriend to make him look bad and you look good.
example: "oh hes such a loser, im obviously the better choice."
shes just going to end up defending him and thinking of you as the slimeball whos trying to break up a "perfect" relationship. fail.
2) instill the ideas of what a good healthy relationship is in her mind. possibly pointing out things that you tend to do in relationships. you can go in many directions, the point is, to instill an idea of a quality or lack thereof in her boyfriend to cause her to have second doubts.
example1: "yeah i remember when i was with my ex, i had a habit of doing little things to surprise her. i guess i enjoyed seeing the excitement and how happy she'd get."
example2: "yeah i remember when i was with my ex, i had a habit of hanging out with my friends more than her. but i learned that to have a good relationship i would spend more time with my girlfriend."
you gotta be careful what you say, but with the right choice of words she will directly relate the qualities of a good relationship to hers and again rethink of relationships.
so heres how i came up with this routine:
i had a blind date valentines last last weekend. as i expected it was ok, not awesome or anything but hey couldnt complain. the girl was very cute, i would say a hb7. she was funny, a dancer, into music, and probably a fun girl to be around. however for some reason or another we just could not click. it was a quadruple date and everything seemed so phony and forced on us by the other couples. the night ended at my house where i threw a little get together with all the couples and some friends. the valentines date got a little drunk and we started talking alot more, i guess she started to think more of me after that night. ever since shes been on my tail asking me if we're gonna go out for an official date and just been pretty persistant. now for me, the thrill is all in the chase and i dont see this girl more than a friend, so i have no drive to go for her. i jokingly told her that i would call her everyday and be really needed. basically describing to her the epitome of an AFC to the max. thinking that she would be turned off by the thought, she got even more into the idea of us hooking up.
this is where the bf destroyer comes in.
i think using that story on a girl, i can somewhat instill those thoughts onto the girl youre trying to game without deliberately saying it. i can also change up what's being "said to the valentines date"
example: "so yeah then i jokingly told her, i would be a terrible boyfriend, i had a habit of hanging out with my friends more than my girlfriend, and we all know that spending time with each other is important in a good relationship."
you can then make it tie back to your targets BF by saying, "i mean, you have a bf, and he doesnt do that right?" Boom, instant anchor. she now thinks about her realtionship with her bf and how hes always hanging out with the boys. She starts to get mad saying he always hangs out with his friends. Then you "obliviously" move to another BF destroyer technique.
example: "oh...well im sure he loves you, its just hes so comfortable with you that he sees you like a sister. well...like a special sister. one thats always gonna be there at home waiting when he gets home. sounds like you guys are on a level where theres no need for too much excitement, some guys deal with love like that etc etc."
she should be wanting to rip your clothes off right now because of the lack of excitement in her relationship.. or so she was told (by you)
just kidding. but now it'd be easier to run your most successful routines without having to worry bout the bf.
havent field tested but will soon. what do you think?
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