have someone insult something, ie clothing, hair or jewlery. memorize what it was they made the insult about. now when u make an opener to the group one thing to get her attention is to compliment whatever it was she was insulted about. girls get vary self concous about what people think about what they look like. so when someone insults something they are wearing it bugs them. so when someone actually notices the opposite and gives her a large compliment about it it turns their feelings around.


me and my wing do this often. u can tell before u make the compliment that something is bugging them. and they purk right up when u give em the compliment. ive even a few times just walked up, after the insult was made. make the compliment and wait beside her as i get a drink. they kept looking at me and away hopeing that i had something els to say, and then made the first move themselves.

ps. u have to let the insult sink in for a bit. let them think about it for a while. a coupple times ive had them leave and change. one in particular was wearing a red dress, which my wing insulted. when she came back i approached and said hey wernt u wearing that beautiful red dress before. this worked even better in my favor that she knew i had noticed her before