So I always find its easiest to seduce somebody I dont have much of a history with. When Ive knowen somebody for a while I always seem to get stuck in this mind set that Im in the friends zone and it would be disrespectful to make a move and Id be crossing some kind of invisible respect line. I do great with girls I dont know, its just women I know I suck with.

Anyway, I recently got in contact with an ex who I hadnt spoken to or seen in 2 years. She's actually moved interstate since our break up and coincidently she was going to be comming to melbourne 2 weeks after I initially contacted her and she asked me if Id like to catch up for lunch. We ended up making that dinner and it went really great. Their was none of that "so whats new, what have you been doing these last 2 years?" it was all real conversation as if we had lyterally picked up exactly from where we left off at. And then 2 days after that she called me telling me she was going back to sydney the next day and could we hang out again before she left so I picked her up for lunch at 4, took her a few diffeerent places and ended up back at my apartment.. on my bed and ended up laying there for a good 4 hours or so just having the most amazing conversation Ive had with a girl in years. Now if this had been any other girl it would have led to sex straight away, but for some reason I just couldnt make a move, I didnt even kiss her! I just kept feeling like I had too much to lose if I fucked it up because I realised I still had feelings (which there for didnt make it a "pick up" for me").

What are some good ways to try and esculate kino with people who you have this kind of history with? when seeing an ex who you havent seen in 2 years you cant just put your arms around them at any given time like you used to. but at the same time you cant get away with alot of the other kino tests you can use on any regular girl youve just met.. because youve already been there and done that in the past.

Does anybody have any advice on a situation like this? unfortionatly Im now going to have to rely on phone game for a month before she comes back down to melbourne again to visit. Of course Im not going to focus all my attention on just this one girl, but it would be nice to make something happen

You seem to be psyching yourself out, applying too much expectation and meaning to this encounter. This thought may help, you already know your ex, you've already had sex with her, and you will always be a man she has had sex with. Treat her as if you'd treat any other women, only perhaps try being even more forward and cavalier, you already know her sexual preferences, likes, dislikes and personality. This should be a cakewalk, as you know you and her have chemistry, and that she finds you more appealing than men whom she has not had sex with.

Yes you can put your arms around them, yes you can make it kino like any other girl. LJBF is coming very soon, good luck.