This is for a girl I'm gaming on facebook. Ok I just got her to jump through my hoop and qualify herself but now she's saying she likes someone else. How do I lower his value in her eyes and not sound like an asshole. Should I bring up the fact that he hasn't asked her out and use that to knock down his value. Any advice on a situation like this?

First rule is control ur frame if she wants to spend time with u awsome if not, there plenty of other women who want to sleep with u as ur the prize,

If she telling u how she likes some other guy, be careful u aint starting to creep into friends zone, say how nice this guy is, so nice to the extent he seems boring and needy, never openly insult him, aim to build more attraction, maybe routine once uv built attraction to a degree, u could say, well its a good job i like him or id take u to a beach and we d dance around a fire naked drinking rum etc...

Its annoying i got a simular problem, but i think sticking to ur guns is best, dont let him get in the equation, cus u want to attract her, and keep ur mind on that.. happy huntin. Deus

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Ok here's what I was thinking

HB10: Well I am a really fun person but I like someone right now. Sorry.

Jester: Oh well that makes two of us then, but it's only one guy right? Well for me it's more like half a dozen but I'd have to count again lol. I just don't know which one to choose cuz I got such high standards. But it's good that your fun to be around then, at least I wouldn't have to break up with you after the first date because of sheer boredom like that other girl. Oh but your single right? So he hasn't asked you out? Wow, maybe he's shy but that's ok usually shy people are very nice haha. Maybe you should ask him out, I'm sure he'll say yes to a face like that lol.

BTW she knows that I'm attracted to her but I also let her know that her looks aren't going to win me over alone so I made her qualify herself to me by saying she's not boring.

sounds awsome, and looks like u made alot of comfort with her, and showing a willingness to walk away, u probs dont have to say have high standards but showed u where in demand, and i forget how u writ it but, u communicated in a way that it showed u where selecting the women u wanted, which showed a lot of DHV.... Saying the other guys shy i like ... sounds good, good luck and im sure it will go well. Deus

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Thanks I just sent it to her. Well I put the thing in about having high standards cuz I didn't want her to get the player vibe from me. Thing is I tried to game a friend of hers a couple months back on facebook and her friend got pissed at me for getting too sexual(her friend said she wanted to fuck me, and then got mad when I got sexual with her, claiming she was just joking). But idk she may not remember since it's been months since I last talked to her, she even flirted with me when we first talked too but she had a bf at the time and I couldn't tell if she was being real with me or not. However idk she may not remember everything that happened.