Ok guys I been gaming this online HB8. I number closed but lately her attention has slipped! The last time we spoke she was fairly enthusiastic and in good form. She hasnt returned my last email or txt and has a habbit of doing this.

Im going to try Freezing her out. I have tryed this before with a different HB but im not sure it was done correctly.

I have been looking through the forum but cant seem to find the answers to my question. It would be great if you guys can help?

Ok do you just cut all communication no matter what? = Freeze out.

Or do you keep varied communication? = Less interested.

I personally dont like freezing out because a PUA must always be advancing. If you freeze out you risk her just plain out losing interest in you.

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Yeah I understand this and its great your pointing it out. Thats why im asking is there a correct method to do this without loosing the HBs interest completely?

I want her to respond to any communication from me and right now I feel the only way I can do this is to freeze her out.

it could go either way. it's like gambling.

if she's interested in you and you have built enough attraction, freezing out will help a lot. i field tested this with my ex. works wonders. makes the girls chase you.

but if you haven't built enough attraction then she'll just forget about u, like mithos said.

Yea that makes a lot of sense. I num closed this HB a while back before I knew about this site. Allways got a response. So I feel the attraction was there. Do you think its a good gamble?

What Im trying to say is. When you are freezing a HB out do you cut off all communication? Dont reply to emails/txts?

Or can you still reply but make it known to the HB that you are now less interested? Would this also be a freeze out method?

i personally think that you should freeze out. iv freezed befor a few times and at times it worked, but sometimes i never worked.

but at this point i think if you freeze out and she looses all attraction for you then just remember that she isnt the only one ur gonna game for the rest of ur life

picture it as literally a game... like mario... your doin good and befor u get to the finish line 'f-close' you get hit and loose. but you have an unlimited supply of lives! so keep trying.

lol easy = HB7
medium =HB8
hard = HB9-10

but yeah man, dont get to caught up and freeze out. she can only loose u, in which u can go play another game

Thanks man! This HB is just weird..Today I got a txt from her wishing me a great new year...after a while I replied back. I didnt want to be a complete asshole. So felt it was best to reply. This is a HB who flaked out on my phone/meet attempts and still sends me msgs from time to time.

(HB) Happy new year (my name) have a good one

I was feeling all new year happy so this was my reply

(ME) Thanks pet...u too:) Theres a bit of protector in me so am gona help you out were i can...if u dont like it tough!

Lets say this HB knows that im making myself available to other HBs. Would this explain her actions? Maybe shes freezing me out to keep me interested?

Or shes just plain not interested?

If I can can get my head around this one it will really improve my game!

Hey man,

Sounds like you aren't emotionally relevant in her life yet. You NEED to meet up with her soon, IN PERSON.

If you are having issues with her flaking on you, or not responding to your texts/emails I think the best method would be the elastic snap back technique.

Tim talks about this in the Flawless Natural...

If he texts a girl a few times with no response, he'll send a text like this:

TIM: ur shit

That's it. It's funny because you'll get the girl all qualifying herself and asking why... People chase rapport, and by breaking it, you get her chasing you.

So you need to do something kinda drastic to get her chasing and then parlay that into an IN PERSON meetup as soon as possible so you can be emotionally relevant to this girl...

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Brad thank you man..you know I have tried this...I sent her an email. Just before xmass. In it I told her I was going to put a warning on her page stating that she was a really crap mate and her sense of humour aint too hot either! All done in a playful way!

This defo worked and it perked her up a bit!

Would constant negging her about her lack of response be better than a freeze out?

She's been naughty. Very naughty. Seems 2 me you need 2 get her ass back in2 the compliance/punishment/reward combo.

1. Check her compliance by seeing how far she is willing to go 4 u.
2. Punish her by making her earn ur attention. Remember its a privilege to have you around.
3. Reward her with more attention when she complies and punish her with less when she doesn't. Cat-string theory remember?

Guys don't forget to stick to basics they provide the foundation for sucess.

Sound thanks! Since I spoke about this a few things have gone on.
Heres the situation now. Pretty much told her to knock me off her friends list because I didnt want to continue a txt/email relationship. She wouldnt so I decide I should piss her off to make her do this. I copied a picture of her ass on to my profile picture...Posted a comment on her page saying hey look at me! She got real pissed. I said now you can knock me off!

She still hasnt. She sent me a mail saying it was wrong to do and to leave her alone and sorry if it was a bit harsh(mean)

I returned the mail and to sum it up. I told her I dont find it harsh(mean) as there are only txts/mails..thats all there are to me. If you find its more you should let me know..or this is my last mail.

Havent heard anything yet. I dont get why she wont knock me off?
I could knock her off my friends list no problem but im taking this opportunity to learn from.

What you think about her not knocking me off her list?

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kiss that one good bye. There is playing game, and there is being a rude, inconsiderate dickhead. I would say you took that way too far and didnt give her a) enough chance to bounce back and b) any reason to do so either as you were devoid of emotional reward.

Not to mention, you posted your ass on her webpage...at a time when there is definitely not enough connection between you two to even support a conversation.

Seriously man??

Anyhow, not ragging on you or anything, just trying to point out some of the obvious mistakes.

I once froze a girl out, i never seen in real life, worked wonders!!! i looked for a small negative remark from her and hopla deleted her everywhere! after 8 days i got a mail: deleted me? and from there i graduately build it up again, she chasing me! i just said: listen i ve got better things to do then listen to your stupid remarks etc etc etc,

also was to much of a friend once to a girl, froze her out, never heard again from her!

and how i see it: the sheare fact, you are doing so much effort of putting on that picture etc, thats the reason she hasent deleted you! You are giving her attention! attention is attention, even if it is negative attention! or the other reason i can be, she is affraid of you, and wants to fade out of your life... my best (normal) girlfreind had this once! my opinion is freeze her out! something you probably should have done between x mass and new year!

about that text of that TIM : ur shit

these things lower yourselves imo, why being negative if she doesnt want to talk to you? freezing out is better then calling her names imo

Have to dissagree on this one. Its not rude..its a picture of her with her friends bent over in a funny way. She quite proud of the picture. Nothing rude.

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