Hey guys new to all this.... just looking for some advice.

A couple of months ago I got this HB number off myspace and we been chatting for months mostly emails and txts. Shes been very distant lately and giving me the I've been busy and theres a few probs in my life excuse. I guess I just bored her and shes no longer interested...

I think I may have went over board with a comment on her face book after a little chat this is what I said.

I refuse to be used as a tool to make your social networking site more interesting!.. I have heaps of tools for different jobs but I wouldnt dream of using one for such a job..thats just mean!

I got no response since.

I noticed her online today and sent her a message telling her my motocross bike was stolen last night and that I was gutted

I got no responce.

I think Ive put the last nail in the coffin so I left her this message..

Hey (girls name)..Im sorry. A couple of things have happened over the week thats put me in wicked form and I guess Ive been trying to cover it up by being an ass... Its hard to get the right message across on this so I hope you can accept my apology. I wont be back on till next week and Im going to be busy chasing down the f**** in (location) who has my bike but if u can give me a txt or someting I can turn all this around...

Im allready pua another girl and its working good so Ive moved on but im finding a comeback challage more interesting!! I dont plan on contacting her untill she makes a move.

How did I handle the situation? Any advice would be great thanks.

This is called a "game" but too many treat it as "just a game".

If you want to succeed, you have to treat it as more than "just a game".

Once you've set your target, you need to set some goals. You need to create a strategy. You need to think about a time frame . . . and within that time frame, you need to think about tasks that you need to accomplish. Thus EVERY interaction you have with your target should bring you one step closer to her vagina. Everything you do MUST have a reason. Without this, you're wasting your time. Months of texting nonsense is really a waste of time.

I know this sounds geeky and technical but it's a starting point. You do this enough times and you'll be able to pull it off without planning every last detail out. Right now, you're just trying to wing it but you haven't done this enough to "wing it". Brett Favre can wing some plays. The kid who sits on the bench of the high school JV squad better follow those plays exactly as it is given to him by his coach.

Here's what you did:

You told her that you were a tool and you didn't like it. Then you insulted her. You whined to her about your stolen motorbike. Then you put your tail between your legs and apologized.

(Can you imagine any girl feeling sexy and attracted to any of this?)

Forget challenges. You're thinking NFL but you can't even make the varsity high school squad. What's wrong with easy? Start fresh!

Suggestions: Read up on this game more. There are many, many field tested methods to create attraction. Have a strategy in mind. With the "computer game", there is absolutely no excuse to send "trash" to your targets. Unlike bars, clubs, and places in real life, you can sit, think, and take your time. Ponder, write, delete, revise . . . strategize. And once you're satisfied that what you're sending is a "product" that achieves your set tasks, that's when you press SEND.

Hey man thanks..Ive just read this response a few times and its really set home. Its just what i need. Well nothing really came of my apology, although
a mail from face book sayin...

(The above girl) edited details on how you know each other. We need you to confirm this.

Whats this? Im guessing its some meaningless stuff...should I even bother confirming it?

Not realy into facebook at moment so will check into it later in the week.

Ok so the news so far.... I have started game with this HB8 who at the time I met her had a BF. I sent her an opener from the txt game thread and been getting good responses.... Thanks for the awakening.

Listen to Kasabi. Great advice.

However, I'm more into natrual game. Everyhing I do does not have a meaning, but I keep track of where I am now and then. Works for me.

But yeah, back in the newbdays I used strict planning.

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Sound yes its great advice! I never really thought about what I was sending so its has been mostly garbage... Now Im putting some thoughts into it before I press send! Its great.. getting some good interesting stuff coming back.

What can I do with the above girl? I think I am over my girlitis as I can picture her with some other random dude and im not bothered. I just feel like I have unfinished business with her.

Im thinking leave it untill mid next week and hit her with a funny opener and see what comes back? Would this be a good or bad call?? Thanks for all the help by the way.

Ok so been taking the advice on board.. So this girl who has been giving me the brush off due to my months of meaningless rubbish, made some contact with me today.

I been thinking of fews ways to get things moving again and last night I got a good opportunity.. I noticed she had a new pic up, in the pic she was in between two female friends, both of which taller than her. Ok lucky for me some dude thought it would be great to compliment her on how "small is beautiful" and wrote a dumb comment stating this.

I thought this be a great place to throw in the alpha male idea so I left a comment under it saying.. No man.. Shes not small the other girls are clearly cheating with those heels! and after this followed... Hey (her name) your a thief!!! Ive have a neg joke to follow up with this.

So guess wha... yea got a txt from her before lunch today...

(HB) hey u sorry not been able to txt but fone not working so im using the web...how u? did u get the bike back? what u mean im a thief?

(ME after sometime) Whoo ha! Hey u must have got outa nosy side of bed this morn ;-P

(HB within a few mis) lol nope but why am i a thief? u get bike sorted?

(ME after sometime) Dont worrie, havent called the cops yet, your v keen to find out tho! No still on the hunt:)

I wanted to give the busy uninterested vibe and I waited maybe 2/3 hrs between txts..maybe was bad idea but am learing!

I never called her up on the "using the web cos my phones broke" thing. Guess she thought she had to make some excuse as to why shes not been in touch.

It will be interesting if its fixed all a sudden tomorrow!

Ok so I think I got the goal I set out to make. This is great place for ideas!
Will let yous know how I get on. If u wana comment on this or have any ideas fire ahead! cheers.