Here's my scenario:

There's a HB7 in one of my classes. Opened her one day in class, and after that we've usually sat next to each other, chatted a little before class. After a couple classes of this, I told her she should come to a party I was having, then she offered to give me her number, and I texted her the address. During the same convo. she also said she was going out that night on a date, so she might or might not come. She didn't come. Anyways, I always get to class first, and she sits next to me. Then, for a couple lectures she didn't, and seemed a little less flirty the past week. I figured things were either going well with the guy she is/was dating or she simply lost interest. Whatever. But today she was flirier than ever, gave me some minor kino, etc.

My basic question is this: is it worth asking this girl out, or has too much time passed? She gave me some IOIs today, so I think she's definitely interested, but since we've just been chatting before and after class for some time now I feel like I may have missed my window because I haven't escalated at all.

Thoughts? I don't really care either way, but I'm just not sure if this one is worth pursuing further. Was thinking of calling her later and seeing if she wanted to go out with me and a couple friends tonight, but instinct tells me that wouldn't work since I could've/should've asked her in person.

If you're asking her direct and she's not quite into it you need to build your relationship with her a little more. She definitely sounds like she's into you but you've got no hook.. I actually had this conversation with my buddy Chappo today and I came up with this..

-Hey I decided after all your pursuation I'm gonna let you take me out tonight. then say "yeah I'll let you take me (to wherever it is you're really going to take her)" so that's a way of asking her and incoorperating that she already wants to. Hope this helps

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You've been stuck in A1 and A2 (early attraction stages) for too long. I suggest you hit her up after class one time or around college and just get a conversation going with her, game her on attraction a bit more, then go into comfort and kino her up.

THEN you can try and isolate or take her out. You're doing that too early. But remember you are the prize so get her to qualify to you, not the other way.