I've noticed the more propinquity you have the more you can get away with in every aspect of the model.

For those that don't know propinquity means just being around the girl. It can be through repeated exposure and seeing her, to living close by her, or going to the same school.

When you first meet a girl each of these stages can only be applied in small amounts without severing rapport or causing awkwardness/creepiness. For example when you first meet and have low Propinquity the stages look like this...

Comfort- Basically just making small talk and commenting on things in the enviornment, maybe giving small tidbits about yourself like "I come here all the time, everyone's pretty cool" or wtvr you use.

Breaking Rapport- saying "no" to her, asking her if you should get a bud or miller and then picking the opposite, disagreeing in some way, saying she has sexy eyes...small little tidbits that are still socially acceptable. When said here though you can get powerful reactions but if said to a close friend (propinquity) you get a very small reaction.

Qualification- asking small questions like "do you like to travel?" or "what's your favorite food?" "Can you cook?" ect ect. Mostly screening under the guise of getting to know her

Sexual Escalation- Could be a hug or hand hold or sometimes even a kiss

However it's amazing what happens when Propinquity becomes high...even among girls who you're "just friends" with.

With high Propinquity each stage begins looking like this...

Comfort- Sharing vulnerabilities, asking questions that get long answers such as "What did you do today?", complete ease with the conversation and merely making observations about things around you or stuff that's happened as opposed to talking about each other

Breaking Rapport- Can get away with MUCH worse stuff that might have severed rapport early on but now REALLY spikes up the interaction. "God you're such a whore" "OK it's time you leave" "It's ok I know you just secretly want me inside you...I understand." "I swear I think I'm a glutton for punishment by hanging around you"....wtvr. Point is the more Propinquity you have the more you can heavily break rapport...with enough Propinquity it actually becomes very hard to sever rapport short of walking away or saying something pretty personnal.

Qualification- You can qualify them and make them invest on ridiculous levels. "Why should I go there with you?" "Are you good at giving head?"...also under qualification comes investment which you can get more of. Such as buying you food, having them come where you want them to go and so on.

Sexual Escalation- With this it gets higher every time. Here's a perfect example. I have a female friend and first time we met we just had great conversation. Second time we met she leaned against me and we danced. Third time we playfully humped each other and I grabbed her ass while taking sexy poses for pictures. Then we met and she was in a bad mood which doesn't count and nothing happened. But the fifth time (last night) she comes up behind me and grabs my dick then turns me around and kisses me. Each time I see her the sexualness gets hightened! Only difference is propinquity.

This understanding can be conducted in 3 ways to get propinquity.

1. Spending time together continuously and the more time you spend together the more propinquity raises gradually.

2. Spending time together but leaving and coming back in the same night. The phenomenon here is every time you leave and come back (under the right circumstances) propinquity practically doubles...however I have noticed that sometimes when done wrong (not sure how I do it wrong still) I can come back and the girl is completely closed off.

3. Spending some time togther...then seeing each other again for a while another night...then another night...and so on. This is the most effective and powerful way to build it but obviously has disadvantages because of the time lapse.

This idea came to be after last night when I interacted with 3 different girls under different contexts and saw propinquity in action (such as the girl grabbing my dick). Would love to hear what you guys agree/disagree with and any other thoughts you might have