Preliminary
A month at university, seen this gorgeous girl several times and I've demonstrated high value as a social 'cool' funny guy in classes and lectures. We have 6 hours of lectures/classes together a week. She has been leaving and arriving to school alone and doesn't seem to have a social circle.
Sitting in Starbucks with a friend, she comes into the Starbucks, gets her drink, half approaches then leaves, maybe our body language wasn't warm enough.
Day 1:
In the same Starbucks a few days later, just ordered my drink and waiting for it, she walks in. I glance at her then look away and think 'shit its Game time'. Still 'don't notice her' as I take a seat in the middle of the cafe. We make eye contact as she takes a seat at the closest table, and she asks me a question about the essays we both have to do, then another, then another, moving her chair closer every time until she's sitting at my table (YESSSSS).
I had every useful Game technique/routine written on my arm, and even looked at them a bit during our 30 minute chat,
but didn't use any of them. Still kicking myself about that, but I was reluctant to transition into the fun frame
(failure, I know). We chatted about our essays, courses, and where we came from. Learnt that she takes an hour train
to Uni every morning, as she lives in a village an hour away. She says a boy in her Econ class asked her out one night but she couldn't - difficult to have a night out in [our city] if she has to take the bus all the way
out of the city then pay a 30 quid taxi fare to get home. She attempted to demonstrate some value by mentioning her boyfriend
and close friends living at home - she cares what I think.
I actually attempted a bit of C&F, and got her to laugh a few times just being me, but one backfired majorly
She pulled out this book and said its really useful, I said 'hope you haven't taken the last one, or I'll blame you for the bad grade'. Came out as a bit rude/she misheard as she said 'pardon?'
As we were walking back to the school she referred to a joke my friends and I shared as we were leaving class in a
previous week, which she was within earshot of. Definite IOI, teasing me essentially.
At the moment I am going with the attitude of ignoring that she ever mentioned a boyfriend - haven't reacted to her
mention of it so far.
Questions:
Was her opening me an IOI? Was there any initial attraction due to my high value demonstrations in previous classes?
Or is she simply trying to make friends (she has essentially none).
Would it have been a good idea to throw in a time constraint? There were a few moments of silence and looking away (she had a class at 6 we sat down at 5 something). I was just feeling very alpha talking to an awesomely hot girl in Starbucks, and genuinely enjoying just looking in her pretty eyes (wussy alert) - that's my excuse
But yeah David D would say it's all about heightening attraction, and leaving and pretending I have other shit to do is mysterious and attractive.
It's definitely not too late to transition into a gaming, C&F guy rather than the fairly AFC guy talking about schoolwork and life. Any particular way I can go about this, other than just showing her the scarf trick or cubing her ;P
Opportunities:
We have a very similar timetable, so it will be EASY to go for a coffee with her on basically any day. She even admits she has to hang around doing nothing for 3 hours on some days as there's no point going home when she has a lecture later. Planning
to let her sit next to me and integrate her into my group of friends.
Goals:
1) talk about more sexual, flirty topics
2) Run some BF destroyer routines/fish for more info - where/is he at university
3) Actually Attract rather than build more comfort or will enter the dreaded Friend Zone
Feel free to give me some feedback on this guys
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