Hi there... i have this doubt and hope to get some useful advices.

here's the thing, i'm into a hb8.5, i've seen her about twice, the first time was only that (seeing her adn a salute) already knew her and she was the same, but neither of us did nothing. the second time there was an extreme rapport building among us, and her body language was in my favour. shit happens, and before i know i'm standing there and she tells me she's leaving with her friends.. FUCK one and a half minutes later i think HER NUMBER.. this happened now a week ago, last night i heard she was in the same night club but i didn't see her, thus didn't get her phone.

anyway that's pretty much my situation, i have the posibility of getting her number from a friend of mine but i keep thinking that may make me look desperate for "not letting her get away"

any tip be welcome
(i know i screw it up forgetting to ask 4 her number.. haha)

Id wait it out till you see her again, if you get her number from a friend and you contact her she most likely will call you on it. This way you have to explain how you got her number and it will portray you as needy, it could also put you in the creepy area...

probaly u're right, but i see i should add some more backround to this situation...

the whole panoram is this: about a month ago, i went on an 8 days senior trip with my school, along with two more schools (hers there) kind of built slight rapport (kind of: 'what a nice guy..' nothing serious at all).

later on, a week after the trip was over, the three schools reunited to have a bbq at night. again, i wasn't attracted to her, just chatted 4 about half an hour with two more friends (a guy and a girl) but basicly a one on one, until she left. i didn't give her any IOIs, her BL was nothing that revealing (just a little as far as i can remeber) but again, nothing serious, from any of us.

five days after that, that noght at the club i talked about (just hi) and about 11 days after that (saturday) the whole BL revealing.

I still wouldn't go for it man, just next time you see her get her number. If you really want her number that bad, make sure your friend asks her if its alright with her so its slightly less creepy.

I'm with BamBam on this one. Wait till you're together again. It's different if she told your friend to give you the number, but I wouldn't suggest asking for it that way. If your friend can do anything, have him arrange a night where you're all out together (assuming you don't see her regularly anyhow).

as usual, thanks for the responses.

no, at this point I have deleted this number option. ur probably right, it may be seen as kind of desperate.

now let me ask ur opinion about something else (not entirely 'else'),, I also have the posibility of getting her e-mail, would this be seen less "ur-my-only-date-with-opposite-sex-in-three-months" type? like telling her 'yeah my friend commented he was chatting online with u and asked him for your mail..'

cause honestly im kind of afraid that as i could not see her on saturday it will continue happening so (it happens 2 me with every girl im interested, its a natural rule i hate) and her interest will fall

again as usual, replies be welcome