I am relativly new to this and still a RAFC and i kiss closed this girl a couple of times but i came on too strong
I started the game when id come out of a looonggg relationship and i think i was too "comfortable" with this girl too early like asif she had been my long term GF i and freaked her out a little bit
now she says "for the time being" LJBF
i dont want to get stuck in one itus (im still going out sarging) but i do like this one more than most and want to try get back on track with her
any advice on what steps to take next please?

LJBF gaming is not harder. itts just different. you need virtually no comfort at all. just pure attraction. IOD, neg, and DHV like crazy. if she ggives you small IOI's completely ignore them. wait until shes desperate. wayever you do - dont be too nice.
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thanks man
so i should just neg her more and try more DHV's
right
ill kino as well but not go for the k close until shes giving me definate big IOI's .

I'm going through this myself at the moment, i've been seeing "the one" for 6 weeks before she went weird and said she didnt want to see anyone and LJBF

I did quite a lot of reading on this yesterday and a couple of things became clear, 1. dont act like a friend, dont apolagise, or show confort etc and i also think you have to be prepared to play the long term game and if need be let your value develop over time. I dont think there's any short term solution unless you confront her about it but thats 99% likely to freak her out and she'll think you're wack... so i think the more you push and pull her and play the waiting game the more your value and therefore attraction will increase...

just my 2 cents, i gave my oneitis way too much attention and now she's almost ignoring me, it s a nightmare but i think all i can do is freeze her for a few weeks and then start the game again....

richie

Yeah... I'm wondering about this freezing tech...
I had a serious case of one-itis no sooner than a year ago, she just wanted to be friends. But then she moved to study at a different town than I. When she came back a couple of months afterwards we totally hit it off and had a good chemistry. Still I hadn't read the game or was aware of any of this stuff so of course I managed to ruin this situation somehow...

But my question is... is there any big diffrence if you totally avoid any form of contact with the girl for a couple of months and then see her again?

yeah i think so, i mean if you can freeze her out for a few months you demonstrate higher value to her because you dont need her in your life. she should start wondering what your up to, and if she doesnt know then you can bend the truth to your advantage

its hard though, not talking to a bird you are crazy about is very tough

the key to ljbf is just turning the tables. girls want what they cant have. if you throw a cat a ball of yarn it will jump on it. once the yarn stays where it is the cat will get bored. YOUR job is to snatch away the yarn and keep that cat pouncing.
so if she knows she can have you whenever she wants you, she is going to lose interest. tell her that you regret ever being more than friends because you just dont feel that way for her. and THEN DHV. pre selection will be the most effective. now careful as any iois she gives you could just and probably will be friendly. so seperate the friendly iois from the sexual iois. give her NO KINO. NONE. when you are cheeky and neg her, watch out for the tap on the knee as if to say naughty! wait for some kino iois from her.
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this is a great response to LJBF, i think its from ross jefferies, and it goes something like:

'friends dont box eachother in, i cant promise i wont be interested in you, but i can promise we'll never be in a situation unless your completly comfortable'

and then just regular game but alittle more freeze-out so she wants you back

yeah thansk a lot V1V good post, what did you mean by this?

and THEN DHV. pre selection will be the most effective?

and also does anyone know any good knock knock jokes that girls take too?

once she sees that you are no longer on her options list and then you dhv and show that your a hv male she is going to want you. then once you demonstrate to her that women are all over you - ahhhh - her attraction for you is going to increase - and the fact that THEY are on HER ''property'' (being you) its going to cause her to act and make the first initiation. think of it like this.
you see a house. thats so cool. it offers everything that u have ever wanted to live in and call yours. you want to buy it but you want to get the price lowered first. THEN you see some OTHER person slapping out the cash for the house to the estate agent. what are you going to do?? your going to outbid them!!
your the cool house. shes the buyer. you need the other buyers to get her to act. if the house isnt cool - then neither buyers will want it. how do you show your a cool house? you do yourself up. DHV.
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