| So, i have this long and complicated story. I need all the help i can get on this. Thanks every1.
I met this girl 2 years ago. started seeing her, and 3 weeks into everything she tells me she has a boyfriend. Didn't really change anything as he was away at college, and we both went to college locally. So everything was great for a few months, although he came home for holidays and things like that.
Then this girl tells me that shes falling in love with me, breaks up with her boyfriend only to get back with him a few weeks later. But tells me she needs me and stuff like that. We still hooked up and everything when he went back to school and as much as i felt like a dick, i couldn't help it b/c at this point i was totally head over heels for her. I also had both parents brother best friend and twin sister on my side.
So lets fast forward a few months. she breaks up with this loser for good, but doesn't tell me. i find out from a mutual friend. So she then comes clean and tells me shes going on a date. We went out a few weeks later and she told me she wants to marry me, and be with me but she just needs to do her own thing right now. So i told her like an AFC would that i would be there for her no matter what b/c i wanted to be with her too. I know.. dumbass!!
I never really heard much about any guy from her or any friends or family members. So her and I became very close again and would hook up occasionally. We ended up going away for a weekend right before valentine's day and it was great, basically we were a couple. I find out after we get back that she had been "dating" this guy for a few weeks when we went away.
I didn't speak to her for 6 months. Randomly i was hangin out with her sister and her sister's bf who i am friendly with and she happened to drop by. We talked and in talking i find out shes still with this guy but isn't happy. We become closer agian, but in the time we didn't speak i discovered all the PUA stuff, and i start gaming her, negs, future events, the whole 9. I thought i had my feelings in check for this girl and wouldn't fall for her again, but i am starting to. We hooked up again, and she told me she loved me and wants to marry me. all within about 3 weeks. Then she pulls the "you know i still have a boyfriend?"
Mistakenly i didnt ignore this and i asked her how she could tell me she loved me and things like that, and then pull the BF shit.
Since then i apologized for saying that and told her there was nothing to talk about at this point so forget it.
We had started talking about going away again before that, now im not sure what to do. Of course i'de love to go on vacation with her (which we split the cost of btw, im not that big of a chump), but i don't want to if shes still got a bf. we still have dinner and drinks before she works every friday and we go out a lot as well.
i have been using some boyfriend destroyers such as ignoring it completley, except for that 1 time, but i hesitate to bring him up b/c she never does.
How do I finally end this bullshit and get her for good?
I apologize for the "war and Peace" esq story
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