Hey Guys, im still an AFC (though improving) and I need some advice.

Honestly I think im very good at approaching and coming under the radar but then I struggle switching from the opener to a casual conversation where I can DHV.

I think im to focus on not talking about the usual AFC topics (what do you do?what's you name? where do you come from? etc.)

What I would need are some more interesting/eleborated/higher value topics...

would you guys help me out on this ???

Firstly, your going to want to get her name eventually anyways, so why not just ask? As for something interesting, just go of on some random tangent if you need to.

There is no prescription to follow for this. Bottom line is you want to make her feel emotion, I usually go with fun, but its your choice.

An example of something I have done is when a buddy of mine walked by and said hi, I turned to the girl and said "that guy eats mexican babies.... true story" she laughed and we talked about how there are so many weirdo's in the city..... easy peasy!

I have also just pointed out a girl who was wearing something that looked expensive and suggested it cost $50, womens clothing is way more expensive and more oftain than not the girl your talking to will totaly dissagree with you, which is also an emotional response (although not a big one). Then you can talk about clothes.

My advice is to just say whats on your mind. Once you start a conversational thread, you can pickup on some of the things she talks about and comment on them, which effectively creates another conversational thread.

Threadding is a whole other topic that you shouldnt worry about until you have gotten a good hold on the basics.

Being cool, calm and having the ability to talk about anything is a huge DHV in itself, so practice until its perfect!

They are human too, just have a normal conversation! Make it fun of course, and make her want more of you. What you do with that 'demand' is then your choice, you maybe want to leave it with a number closing (assuring yourself a good answer when you call next time) or maybe even a kiss-close.


But what would I know, I'm a green-eyed 6'3" freshman who hasn't even kissed a girl yet.

Yea man, I completely fell u... I'm in the same situation. However, some things that have worked for me in the past are the best friends test and seriously just random conversation about anything. Putting in the DHV spikes though makes a big difference. Also make sure you utilize the FTCs and false takeaways or ur chances of getting blown out are gonna be much higher.

-Karma