in a topic on another forum i've read about the octoberman and some routines simular to this one.

This post isn't about forbidden patterns or NLP but about a part of a story that's been used in it, i would like to convert this into a story which is comfort building (or whatever)

Its about a theory the psychologist jung had some years ago. Here's a passage from the theory:

"Unfortunately there can be no doubt that man is, on the whole, less good than he imagines himself or wants to be. Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual's conscious life, the blacker and denser it is."
"Psychology and Religion" (1938)

I would like to start it with something like "You're way to nice, what's your shadow?"
She then would ask: "shadow?"
Here you can tell about the theory how everyone has deep desire's which they cannot forfill because of the environment they are in or certain standards of their culture.

Is there anyone that can help me form this into a story that doesnt make them think that my shadow is very dark (like i would like to rape or kill) and if there's a good, possibly DHV, answer when she returns the question?

Here is some information about the subject, unfortunatly most of it is about the supressed rage that "man" carries with him, but obviously i would like the story about unforfilled desires
"okay wanted to post an URL here but i can't because i dont have 5 posts"
when you search on google "jung shadow" the first page would be just fine

i would also like to hear some opinions wether you would use this on a HB or if you have something against it. Eitherways i'm going to try this on a day2 tommorow in its imperfect form, if there's interest on the topic I'll let you guys know how it went!

Thanks!