Wat do you do after you get a females phone number? I dont mean the obvious in terms of calling her, I mean what's the best approach/technique of winning them over after they give you their phone number? Should you normally wait a certain length of time before calling or perhaps texting (sending an sms). And when you do call or test what is the best things to say?

The reason I ask this is because, there was a sistuation not so long ago whereby I got a girls phone number in a night club. A couple of days letter I decided to text her to see ow she was etc and she text back and it seemed to be going fine. I then decided to call her up (as texting can sometimes be limited), she was busy at the time so we didnt stay on the phone for long. I then thought "ok well I will leave you too it then" and I didnt text or call her back as she did say to me on a brief phone call "I will call you back later". She text me a couple of days later saying she tried calling me but couldnt get through (which may of been the case, but I was skeptical about it). So then we started texting again, (i didnt flirt much as she didnt strike me as that kind of girl so the text convo's started to become boring) and I still have yet to even ask her on a date (I normally do this alot sooner). So weeks pass and we share this same texting relationship up to the point I just asked her if she was going to be out one weekend she said "yeah" so we left it at that. I went out on the weekend (not to see her by the way) and saw her out for the first time since getting her phone number and she immediately text me saying "are you out tonight" I then looked at my phone and looked up to see her looking over and she was smiling, so I went up to her and said "hi" before passing her. As I passed her she grabbed my hand as if she wanted me to stop in which i didnt (I did this because I was with the guys and I continued following them (i should of stopped)) Later on I then saw her outside with a male friend in which I began talking to her and her friend. Then my ex girl friends friend started taking photos of us out of the blue which just completely crashed things. My friends then wanted to leave as my this girl who was taking pictures (my ex's friend) is a trouble maker, so left? AFter that night even the texting hasnt really been the same and when I asked her on a date she let me down.

Any advice on this situation? and besides this situation in general to speed things up a bit interms of intimate encounters (not just sex but physicall contact in some shape or form)

ok you need to work on your game all around first off when texting and or on the phone CONTROL THE CONVERSATION take the conversation in a different unexpected direction you can have a fun conversation with the most boring girl on the planet (ex you know.... i thought about missing you..and i decided not to.) something she was not expected takes the conversation in a completely different direction, and always try to play the role of the busy one. ..... Iv had this before where a girl just doesnt seem that easily interested aka just busting her balls doesnt work shes to boring lol.. get into more deep conversations about what she want to do in the future where she wants to go how she wants to do it .. and bust her balls a little in the process.
In person from what you wrote it sounds like you were like hey how nice to see i should really go and reluctantly left wrong... if your going to do that stay for 20 secs build some quick attraction ( a situational neg and some push and pull kino) and than exit on your own account not because your afraid of loosing your friends.

the picture situation was actually a great chance to establish some great kino to build comfort you should have made that one fun and went with it try not to get annoyed in situations like that it shows confidence if you can adapt and not be flustered.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1hnyEJqpUq4
kino escalation ladder great for learning when to initiate kino

hope this helped

Thanks for the reply, a few things I would like to ask:

When I normally go out on the pull, I go up to girls get there number etc but then I leave it there, it seems to fissle away after that? What advice and tips would you give to keep things flowing, and to keep her on her feet and interested etc?

At the moment I think my approach is more like:

see the girl - get her number - call her later and see where it goes

I wreckon I need some tips on closing properly (i.e.not to sound too crude but getting laid there and then or a few days later would be great)