hey all, this is my first post, forgive me if search button would have helped...

there is this girl i know, i have known her for about a year. I am very attracted to her, and told her that I was interested in her before I started "getting it". So, my feelings have not changed for this girl, and I took what I learned and started to ignore her a bit, and be confident, happy and cocky. I am naturally funny.

Anyway, I had asked her how her weekend went a while back, and learned that she got back with her jerkface boyfriend. I asked her why and she said that she didn't know. I immediately told her that she was ridiculous and walked away. (i was a little upset. I know, I let something get to me... she has this way about her that makes me "vulnerable").

So, are there any tips you guys have that will assist me in building attraction with her, even though she shot me down before, and gave me the 'friends' speech?

I get the feeling that deep down, she feels there would be potential, but I may be looking at it through rose colored glasses.

thanks all.

Forget her and move on to the next one.

If you haven't seen her in a while really show her your better looking more confident and fashionable. Show her your desired by other women and be n flirtatious with her, and when your comfortable, make a move.

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why do all the sad stories start like this?

maybe he bangs her REAL good? she wont tell you ...

No, she doesnt. It is you who gives her the permission to do so. To be more clear, you like her and that is why you would eat her crap. you can like her and still keep your boundaries, but i guess you got upset here because you put some serious work in getting her and she didn't appreciate it enuff, bascially ignoring it. prolly what you did and the place (mindset) where you came from wasnt right? remember "attraction is not a choice".

you spared that part in your description so far. NO. "attraction is not a choice".and it is worse because you start to emotionally blackmail her.

what are you? a psychic? if she felt deep down anything romantic for you, you would already know after a year hitting on her, i guess.
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DONT WASTE YOUR TIME AND ENERGY. there is at least one nice girl out there waiting for you, and you try to resurrect a dead cow. any second you spend with her you could be fucking with another one who likes you, just imagine that. hth.

Move on and if you really have to, run the jealousy plotline on her...

You know she feels something??? My guess is she does she feels she has a driver, somebody to pay for her dinner and somebody she can get value from. My advice move on work on your game and pay her no attention at all. The reason she got back with her x was he nails her the way she likes it..

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thanks for your help guys... i was being an AFC. although, i KNOW i would bang her better. her loss.

My advice is she is to much a part of your life.

The first thing I would say is you dont build attraction from nothing. So your done.

The second thing I would say is detatch yourself from her life dissapear for three months come back and being fun and a cool guy to hang out with you MIGHT find her attracted towards you.