so I started a post in opening however I just relized its more apropriate to be in building attraction. This girl is a friend of a friend. we both know each other not very well though. i've been seeing her more frequently and decided to pursue. so what I'm getting at does anyone have good rutiens, advice, councile on how to build attraction with this girl...has anyone had experence with attraction with a person you already know. I can guess the game is going to be slightly different than a stranger however I have no spasific experence in the matter.

- I agree with you that it is slightly different from a stranger. This is because you want to spread out your game. At a bar, you would use all your game in 20-30 mins dependign or even an hour. Versus, if you go to a house party with a friend of a friend, you can spread out your game throughout 3-4 hours. Or even do it on a day to day basis.

- I personally love sarging friend of a friend. I've had so much success with that.

- One thing I love doing while at a house party, is push pull, I'm talking to her for 20 mins, then turn my back and start flirting with an attractive girl. Then go back to her and move two steps forward, then move one step back. Since I keep moving two steps forward, it eventually leads to us in an isolated room. You know what happends from there.

yeah I like that approach... in my situation however I don't see her so much for example at a party but just randomly chilling... like were all hanging out and she'll come with some of her friends.... so its already a smaller setting. I was thinking of a similar approach ... that is slowly working tward isolation... I'm thinking of focusing on push pulls and attraction stuff ...for now atleast

is there anyone else with experence with a friend of friend

yeah I like that approach... in my situation however I don't see her so much for example at a party but just randomly chilling... like were all hanging out and she'll come with some of her friends.... so its already a smaller setting. I was thinking of a similar approach ... that is slowly working tward isolation... I'm thinking of focusing on push pulls and attraction stuff ...for now atleast

is there anyone else with experence with a friend of friend


- Well, are you old enough to go to the bars? If so, call the mutual friend you know, and say " Hey, I'm going out for a couple drinks with the guys, why dont you and ___ come along " . Then while your at the bar, flirt with all the females in your area, and then later dance with your target.

- If your not legal drinking age, then invite a couple of the guys and a couple of the girls to a movie. Try to sit beside her.

- Try to get her number next time you see her as well. Once you have her number, do more one on one stuff with her.

- Also, don't forget that your targets' friends have a lot to do with it. So you have to win the approval of her friends as well. So don't be the nice guy to them, and try to make them laugh, and be fun and interesteing towards them as well.

- As far as attraction, do negs, DHV ( story telling ), push pulls, and showing male to female interesting, bate hook real release.

first off, friend of a friend is so much easier to game....you definitely got this.

you automatically have qualifiction because she knows youre not some creep apporaching her at a bar, you are friends with her friends. thats instant qualification and a plus point for comfort.


you'd game her the same as you would someone in a bar i'd say, but you don't exactly need to open her. i'd still say ask a random question, maybe an opinion, to her just to start the convo, then move into some kino.

the key when gaming an acquaintence is to tease her a lot. throw in a few negs, playful teases...basically make fun of her in a joking way.

for example if you're talking to her and she acts up, simply say:

you: "jeez how does your boyfriend deal with you?"
HB: I dont have a boyfriend
you: "yeah, thats probably for the best"


little teasing things like that will go a long way when you game an acquaintence. basically what im trying to say is you dont have to bust out a lot of routines (ie the cube, palm reading) if you dont want to because you already have some rapport and comfort. it wouldnt hurt at all to use those though and i recommend you do, but also try teasing her a lot and playfully making fun of her. it'll go a long way.

well you know we can talk about my spasific problem but I was thinking more along the lines of a general thread of stories and/or advice about these types of situations... but anyways back to my individual conquest

so last night I go to a movie with the one friend and she came too...well more like met us there... but it still was a supprise. unfortunatly she was there before us... I couldn't sit next to her and she was there with her good guy friend...who I believe because he may be gay. I got a chance to be slightly playful at the end of the movie but since she was there with her friend it made difficult to target her while we were walking from he theater to the cars. unfortunatly I have my ex girlfriend coming tbis weekend for a wedding so I guess that rules out this weekend to go to a bar or
something... which I acutally think might be a good thing. my parents are gone this week so... we'll see