I'm Lennon and I've posted many topics which no one has answered. I have no game at all and I've been at this for 7 months. I'm the same as I was 7 months ago. It's not my looks. This avatar is bullshit; I don't have any pics 100x100 but if I did you'd see I'm decent if not good looking. I still attract dogs and the occasional decent girl only to have her grow bored with me so fast it makes my head spin! I fucking hate myself. All I want is a fucking a girl I'm attracted to to want to be with me! I'm 29 for god's sake? What is wrong with me???? I'm fucking clueless. I haven't learned from my mistakes and I have no one to guide me. Goodlooking women are bitches to me. Ugly ones love me. That is the way it always has been and it seems its destined to continue unless something changes fast. I'm not getting younger...I havent had a girl even kiss me in a year. How much worse could I do

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Don't take this in a bad way, but I think it's because you're getting so worked up over it. You expect what you're doing to work, and getting frustrated that it isn't working, and girls pick up on that, ya know?

You can't be a PUA right off, take an NLP approach. Break it down to yourself, discover what the problem is. Achieve all the smaller outcomes, and the bigger ones will happen.

I'm sorry, but how are we supposed to help you with a post like that?
k first off, These "good looking women" are not bitches to YOU. They are bitches, plain and simple. I refuse to beleive you cannpt find a single good looking woman who is not a bitch, in fact in my experience there is little correlation between looks and bitchyness. Maybe the problem is that you find bitchiness attractive? And stop talking 'bout "ugly girls", it is a bad attitude to have. Putting ppl down is not what confident players do.

Starting at this moment, there is nothing the fuck wrong with you. You are not fucking clueless. You are from this moment on, a kind, confident, considerate person. You are completely independent, you don't need women to validate yourself. You aknowledge any weaknesess in your personality, and you don't let anyone, including yourself, see those weaknesess. You will pursue the next woman you are attracted to with sincere intentions, to love for and care for her truely, to fuck her right, and to stay with her for as long as possible, or else not go after her at all.

And, girls don't usually kiss you, you kiss them. So you better tell me you've gotten ALOT of pushes and slaps in the past year.

I just responded to one of your "topics noone has answered"

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"Losers always whine about "their best", winners go home and fuck the prom Queen!"

"..Carla was the prom queen."

"Really?"

"Yeah" (Cocks gun)

I know, thanks and people shouldn't take that comment I made personally. There were a few posts I put up when I needed help with something and some are probably still up actually where literally no one responded at all but I was just having a rough night AGAIN and everything was just getting to me. I felt like punching a snotty bitch right in her face man I swear...lol

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Hey man.

It seems like there may be a lack of satisfaction with your life.

I had many of the same issues from some stuff in my past. I went to therapy and it truly changed my life.

I reccomend it for almost anyone as a way of finding oneself and being a happier person.

Best of luck to you my friend.

Thank you for wishing me luck. A lack of satisfaction in my life? Thats an understatement bro. If you had any clue how truly miserable my life is you probably wouldn't believe it. I don't think therapy is enough to help me man lol. Many of my problems result from a serious car accident in Nov. that I still have not recovered from. I lost my apt in Dec. so I am stuck living in a 1br. apt. with my mother who has "borderline personality disorder"(so she screams at me, puts me down,etc.) on the 3rd flr. w/ no elevator and I am unable to walk up or down steps unassisted yet and haven't been able to since Dec. 7th! I rarely get out, my mom goes nuts if my friends come over and try to take me out because she doesn't want me drinking...I'M 29!!!!!!??? I need therapy and surgery but I had no car OR medical insurance, so there is a million $ lean on me from I guess the hospital! I could go on and on and on but you get the hint. It's my situation. If I got the therapy I needed to regain almost complete use of my legs, I could get a job, get another apt and move out of this crazy place and start living my life again. I need to lose the crutches, get into PHYSICAL therapy and away from my mother. Until the funds are raised though, I'm stuck in this no win situation that may very well be driving me nuts...

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I don't even know what direct or indirect game is lol...no the extent of my sarging is not strictly online although it is predominantly online. The fact is, I still don't have full use of my legs, esp. my right leg and I only get out about once a week and actually I haven't gone out yet this week/weekend. If you read my quote above it pretty much explains my current situation.

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I know it's cliche, but girls really pick up on confidence. If you are confined to a wheelchair, own up to it and show girls that you are still a strong person. Make it clear to them that people who make you feel handicapped are usually people who are somehow crippled themselves (mentally, emotionally, etc).

The thing about gaming online is that it's a whole different animal. There's no use of kino and negs can easily come off as just being dickish. Do your best to get out there and meet new people.

Believe me, Lennon, I know this world is a fucked up place. I know you realize this too. My advice would be to do what I did: Know the world is fucked, but be the one person who tries to make a change.

By the way, John was by far the best Beatle.

John was the best Beatle

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take it one step at a time and relax. the key is to relax.

like i told my friend who sounds very similar to what you were discribing when you go out hunting for pussy, relationships etc... it never seems to happen i am 30 i havent had a girl friend in 13 yrs i havent had sex in 6 months and i could care less i love life i enjoy all the fun i have wheather it be by myself or with a group i really could care less about hot woman ugly woman etc.. i am just living and loving life and woman seem to gravitate to me and i ignore them untill they jump me just relax and it will happen

Then I guess I always use indirect. I'm not "hiding behind my computer" it's that I am unable to get out very often. That will change on July 16th but it is what it is right now. haha, I can't even get out to get a haircut! I did actually go out yesterday afternoon with by brother and my dad (my brother took me to the mall to get a haircut but there was a 2hr wait and my dad couldn't wait that long to help me get back up) so we went and got some beers at this ale house for an hour where all the waitresses are cute.

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Lennon, you can't get out much at the moment so why not get a little plan going?

For the moment, forget your current inability to travel out, walk etc. worry about it when you CAN.

concentrate on everything you CAN within your current confines, vocal training, spending some time on the forum, not too much though!. There are millions of things you can't do at the moment, so? concentrate on the other millions of things you CAN!

Taking a break, letting your mind breathe from Pick-up, Coming up with your own material, work away and away and away like a chick waiting to hatch until the right moment.

Remember the story of the ugly duckling.

Student X...

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"Losers always whine about "their best", winners go home and fuck the prom Queen!"

"..Carla was the prom queen."

"Really?"

"Yeah" (Cocks gun)

that is a good idea actually though it is easier said than done...

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