I'm basically in my nerd-stage figuring things out right now. I know nothing, but learning is fun. But I've noticed that there are other women on here, and it would be fun to bounce ideas off of each other.

So, I think I have a good idea for jealousy. You put your phone in your purse, and when you're out, you take it out (that nobody can tell it didn't vibrate) and look at the screen. You either start breathing heavy and you smile/lick/bite your lips or you breathe heavy and bite your thumb and press your lips together. And you stare at that screen for a while, and you start playing with the buttons frantically, and then you quickly put the thing away and act really happy. The idea is to act kind of smitten, not so much to act like a serial rapist.

Well, I don't know what to do after that. According to Marni Batista, playing with your hair works: I think the hair is basically the most important thing. So I guess you play with your hair, and then, if possible, maybe say something kind of neutral to the target? If this is a totally bad idea, maybe someone can tell me.

It seems like female PUA would be more about theatrics. My assumption is that men will draw conclusions about what kind of woman you are and how good of a person you are based on their five senses. And then the female version of cock-blocking is when other women try to paint you in a bad light, or somehow disrupt your act. And that's so complicated, it gets into politics. Anyway, I'm rambling..

wtf this seems really weird.

Is this aimed at attracting men around you, or making a specific man jealous?

I think this forum and most of the pua stuff will fuck you up, even more so than the guys.

The advice i would tell any women trying to become more successful with the opposite sex would be:

1. Max out your looks as much as possible, go to the gym, good hair, style that suits you, perfect makeup etc.
- Looks is the no.1 thing that attracts guys. This will give you a lot more choice

2. Cultivate your feminine energy. Women are meant to be free, sexy, fun, caring, graceful etc.
- women are attracted to MEN. men are attracted to WOMEN. Positive attracts negative, Hot and cold, summer and winter, Yin and Yang, You get me?
Women are attracted to masculine men and men are attracted to feminine women. By this I don't mean some ditsy barbie doll, i mean feminine energy and spirit. David Deida's books may help you understand this more fully.

3. Work towards being a happy, social, fulfilled person. Basically a better person all around, more fun to be around, cool, joyful, positive etc.

These 3 points will make you a higher quality women and give you more choice among high quality men.

Well, if you can picture this, as a woman, it's a bit of both. I still think rank is important, but rank doesn't necessarily equal attraction.

As to your second comment, it's not so simple as girls giggling happily together. There are a lot of power politics. It also takes a lot to stick-out when you're not naturally the most beautiful woman in the room. Men rank women based on 1. How they look and 2. A bunch of other variables. I think how you look is a big part of it, but if you go solely on that, and you aren't an 8+, you're doing a lot of standing around and waiting. There ain't nobody got time for that.