| By following this system, you will be able to speed read a girl's personality up to the point where she beliefs that you have psychic abilities. You will be the most fascinating guy to talk to. Girls love it because they get to talk about their most favourite person in the world: themselves. I have even seen girls lining up or forgetting to go to the toilet because they want to be analysed next. My coaching clients were able to use this system on their first day in the field by simply following these 5 steps!
STEP 1 - Find out if she is Introvert or Extravert
Extraverts usually enjoy meeting new people. Introverts are more reserved and need time to warm up when around new people. They often prefer one on one conversations. However, introverts can be very talkative when they are with friends they feel safe with. Also, being extravert doen't necessarily mean they get along and open up to anyone. Extraverted girls enjoy being the focus of attention and are therefore often more in the spotlight than introverted girls.
Questions to ask to find out if she is 'E' or 'I':
>Are you generally more outgoing or reserved as a person?<
>When you meet new people, are you very outgoing or do you need some time to open up?<
STEP 2 - Find out if she is Intuitive or Sensing
Intuitive people make up 25% of the population and are very purpose driven. They want to understand the world around them and are interested in deeper meaning. Therefore, intuitives are focused on the big picture (meaning of life, why is it the way it is) and live in the future (how could things be different?). Intuitives like to engage in deeper discussions on an abstract level (imagine if..). Intuitive girls tend to have an unconventional look and can sometimes neglect their fashion.
Sensors (75% of the population) tend to live either in the past or present moment. They are more stimulated by their senses: e.g. seeing, hearing, tasting. Sensors generally prefer to speak about their own experiences. Either they have a strong opinion about what is "normal" and are focused on the past. Or they are driven by their desire to live in the present moment and enjoy their life. Sensors generally have a tendency to change topics quickly, can observe a lot of detail without wondering too much about hidden or deeper meanings. Sensor girls tend to follow a fashion trend and are very aware of details in their physical appearance.
Questions to ask to find out if she is 'N' or 'S'
>Do you live in the future or in the past/present?<
>Are you more interested in the big picture / vision or focused on detail?<
>Do you think more about what could be or what there actually is?<
STEP 3 - Find out if she is Thinking or Feeling
75% of girls are more emotional than rational. That means that they are more sensitive than analytical. Generally, thinker girls classify themselves without hesitation as rationals. Feeler girls often hesitate because they have learnt logical behaviour in their jobs or studies. A variety of narrowing questions helps to have a girl agree to being more emotional than rational despite her initial ambiguity. Thinker girls tend to prefer straight forward approaches where either she or the guy articulates their intentions clearly. Feeler girls prefer a more playful approach with warm or even romantic gestures.
Questions to ask to find out if she is 'T' or 'F'
>Would you describe yourself as more rational or emotional?<
>If you are criticised, can you show a sensitive reaction or is it only a feedback of how to do things differently?<
>Are you a romantic person: do you like flowers and candlelight dinners?<
STEP 4 - Find out if she is Judging or Perceiving
Judging people are more outcome driven whereas perceivers are more process oriented. A judger who is also a sensor is normally very organised and likes to get things done and is highly reliable. A judger who is an intuitive likes to take in new information but also judges these ideas according to their usefulness. Perceivers are constantly open to take in new information and welcome spontaneous experiences.
Questions to ask to find out if she is 'J' or 'P':
>Do you change your opinions or do you tend to stick to your opinions?<
If she is a Sensor: >Are you very organised in your private life or spontaneous?<
If she is an Intuitive: >Do you apply a judgement to new ideas or do you see new possibilities in every idea?<
STEP 5 - FINAL ANALYSIS
If you take one letter from each step of the above analysis, you get a string of four letters describing a personality: e.g. Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Judging = INTJ. The letter combinations allow 16 different personality types which I have described an researched in depth. Follow the link underneath this article to find out more.
Right now, we will only focus on the four temperaments. This is to keep it more basic and not lose ourselves in too many personality descriptions at this point. The idea of the four temperaments goes back to ancient Greece. Identifying a girl's temperament allows you to reveal their core desires and enables you to relate to her. Based on the above analysis you can now already identify the temperament of a person. You can use the following descriptions of temperaments to make statements about a girl after speed reading her personality. The answers will give you a feedback about how accurate you were.
Intuitive Thinkers (xNTx) - 7% of women
NTs are the rarest type amongst women. They are visionaries who like abstract ideas (intuition) which they break down in a logical way (thinking). They dominate hard sciences in higher education and are natural debaters. NTs don't attach emotions to their arguments even when discussing personal matters. Their opinion therefore tends to fall in line with the solution that is logically right. NT girls are often not so aware of themselves sexual beings. This is because they are more interested in things (e.g. technology) than people and they are also not so aware of their bodies as they live more in the realm of imagination. NT girls are easily approachable. But the best way to get the interest of an NT girl is by stimulating her mind with some knowledge that goes beyond the ordinary. This is why NT girls naturally feel most attracted to NF or NT guys.
Intuitive Feelers (xNFx) - 17% of women
The core purpose of NFs is to empower other people to reach their full potential. This makes them natural idealists. Just as NTs, they like to explore new ideas in depth. Only that their focus is on understanding relationships rather than inventing new technology. NF girls are warm, understanding and unconventional. They get the essence of people very quickly and understand their deeper motivation in life. NFs actively work on building harmonious relationships. NF girls are easily approachable. But the best way to get the lasting interest of an NF girl is to show interest in her rich inner world and give her the opportunity to express her emotions without judging her for it. In relationships, NF girls are naturally compatible with NF or NT guys.
Sensing Judgers (xSxJ) - 44% of women
SJs are the most common type in women. They are the pillars of society and often work as bureaucrats, nurses, teachers. SJ women are traditional in their value judgement and tend to go along with the majority opinion. They are extremely good at practical organisation and like to have a routine. That means that they are highly reliable as friends or partners and are a great help when it comes to dealing with logistics and detail. SJ women have a classy look and pay attention to their physical appearance. They are typically the most difficult ones to approach because they need time to build trust in new people. The best way to get the interest of an SJ girl is to stimulate her senses by having a high pace in the conversation and changing topics frequently. They also enjoy experiencing fun stuff that is still within the ordinary (e.g. cinema, restaurant, theme park). In relationships, SJ girls are naturally compatible with SJ and SP guys.
Sensing Perceivers (xSxP) - 32% of women
SP girls are fun loving and tend to live in the present moment. They enjoy doing anything that involves new physical experiences that stimulates their senses. Therefore they enjoy fashion, sports and music. They are highly energetic girls who are very aware of their sexuality and are not afraid to use it. SPs have a facility of engaging others spontaneously in new activities and like to expand their social circles. SP girls often wear provocative outfits and can be seductive through their playfulness. They can be approached easily but lose interest quickly if their senses are not stimulated enough. As natural party girls, SPs respond very well to alpha male behaviour. In relationships, SP girls are naturally compatible with SP and SJ guys.
TAKE IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL
You will notice how quickly you get good at speed reading girls' personalities with a little bit of practice of these 5 steps. You will take charge of the conversation and therefore naturally establish your authority in any context. You only reinforce your authority if a girl thinks you are wrong with a statement you make about her. By having girls justify themselves to you why they oppose your analysis, you are building even more social value. You will also have an immediate understanding of a girls needs and desires, how to communicate with her and also know how she is compatible with you in the long run.
Watch the video of myself using this system of speed reading girls in action. In this video you will see the 5 steps and even more advanced techniques (e.g. using the 16 personalities to speed read girls). Simply follow the image-link below this post to watch this video now and see for yourself how powerful this technique is!
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