I've dated this girl in the past and we've already had sex, well long story short we have reconnected recently and every time she spends the night I'll try and make the move on her by kissing and kissing on her but she's really not proactive except with kissing. My question is next time she spends the night how should I go for sex should I start kissing on her and work my hand down, I have this feeling if I try anything she'll just push away. I know it should like I'm a noob because we've had sex before but my confidence to try anything isn't there because of the feeling she'll push away. I do I get her to want it to the point where she can't take it anymore? Should I do the push pull in bed? Thank you for the help everyone!

It is your responsibility to escalate. Yes, you should be the one kissing down her body, fingering her, sucking on her tits so she wants to have sex. Finger her, but not to orgasm, then put on a condom and sleep with her. If you encounter resistance, pull back build comfort then go for it again. She needs to be incredibly aroused to be the one to make the first move and that is rarely the case.

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