We have all heard all of these pickup gurus talking about hand holding being one of the easiest ways to transition into kino escalation, but when you give her that compliance test by telling her to give you her hands, how do you know that you are receiving the best hands position??

I am not trying to over-think this, I just mean, hands facing down or hands facing up...

Based on your past experience with hand holding kino, let me know what you think. Either way, you'll be escalating, which is great. I guess I just wanna know if there was something secret to which way she gives you her hands, or if it was all just mental masturbation...

Whadda ya think?

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Lol holding hands. So cute. Go for the inner thigh player.

^^^ Like right in the middle of the food court at my local mall? I'll let you know how that goes down.

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I've seriously and literally never told a girl to "give me her hand".

All I do is that I hold out my hands or instantly grab hers and do whatever I want.

Let me ask you a question: If a girl at a random place told you to give her your hand, would you reject? Most probably not unless you are into men.

Do the same for her.

Yea thanks. My post seems like a stupid question but the real reason I asked about which way her hands are facing is because I figured if I got the "not so comfortable" response, I would then know to calibrate...

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Why do you ask in the first place? She will pull her hand away anyway if she's not comfortable with it.

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Yeah, asking is very submissive. You're a man, not a mouse. Don't ask. If she pulls back instinctively think nothing of it but don't persist like a pervert.

Do you guys have trouble reading or something??? Where did I ever say anything about asking???....

You don't ASK a girl if you can see her hands, the same way that you dont ASK a girl for her number. You trolls should be ashamed...

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I was just jumping on the bandwagon. Dunno about the guy who started it.

I wasn't trolling... Telling her to give you her hand is asking in my dictionary. Also, it doesn't fucking matter at all in what direction her hands are facing. It also doesn't matter whether she blinks twice or three times in the procedure. What still doesn't matter whether her eyebrows twitch a little or not, or that her nose wiggles a little or not. Also it's unimportant if she waits one, two, or three seconds after this before again starting to talk. See I could list you a lot more stuff that is just as important as what you were asking.
. Well you may not be trying but you definitely are overthinking this.

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I actually had a feeling that you werent trolling and were actually being sincere, I just wanted to rustle your jimmies a bit!!! Thanks for the sound wisdom.

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One last thing I want to add. If you don't like the position of the girl's hand when she's giving it to you, then very easy is the solution. You simply grab her palm and flip it, and then hold it. Really no need to overcomplicate these very simple things.

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Yea i agree. I never once thought that i wouldnt be able to handle the situation, i just brought it up as the subject of this post because I wanted to know if the way that she actually handed her hands to you was an indicator of how she was feeling.

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Oh I get your point here.

I've read a book about body language. They say if she gives you palm up, then she's submissive. Palm down is considered serious and controlling.

Doesn't matter anyway in situations like this. Just read how she approaches her hand. She'll get comfortable if you know how to touch her right. Just don't think it and make it look creepy. Do it as if you are her boyfriend with no worries and you'll do great.

Good luck

I have encountered this problem, the guy let me kiss him, there will inevitably be shy girl, but not as good as direct kissing boys, ha ha! This time I feel more exciting.