There comes a time when there is that one (or more) girl that has that bitchy attitude that makes me look away. Either they're shit testing or just moody, it comes off to me annoying as fuck, and I'd like to punish that behaviour, somehow, to teach them that they shouldn't pull that with me. Generally, I simply ignore them and make them look like three year olds crying in public, but there are times when I just want to demoralize them in order to drop the attitude.
What I'd like to know is, what's a good way to "disarm" this kind of behaviour, or to simply punish it?
I'd also like to know if I'm the only one who's encountering this type of thing, so some geniune answers would definitely be appreciated.
Cheers.

Being a dick, may make you feel better, but you'll just end up looking like a dick, and trust me negative feedback spreads twice as fast as positive feed back.

"Disarming" as you said is best. Even if it doesn't work out with HER everyone else will think your king shit!


Something like:

Is this your your way of hitting on me. I knew I was awesome, but I didn't know I could have that effect on YOU.

Wow you seem tough. I want to hire you as my bodyguard, do you charge by the hour? Or do you have a weekend rate?

You are so cute, when you are trying act like a bitch, it make your eyes sparkle.

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Up till now I've always locked horns with bitchy girls. (I've got an aggressive personality.) Think I'll use that line.

There are two methods i prefer for this situation. 1 is friendly, the other is a little more agressive.

To do it in a fairly friendly matter, just tell her you know that the reason she's acting bitchy and tough is because truthfully she's insecure. It will let you get inside her head a bit without sounding like you're on the attack. And a lot of times, its really true.

If i have no interest in gaming her, and simply want to disarm her, I would tell her to "Stop acting tough, its unnatractive." Say this in a very casual matter-of-fact voice, not aggressively. For the rest of the interaction, every time she's about to open her mouth to be bitchy, or purposely giving a pissed off stare, a little voice in her head will start saying "Oh shit i'm being unattractive" Even if she has no interest in you, this will scare her enough that she doesn't want to be unattractive to everyone else around her.

i just call her a cunt.


kidding, obviously.

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I used something like this "OMG, that's so cute, u're hitting on me... (Smile) that's cute" and works I will try this one. love it

The advice you guys give are so lame seriously. Sounds like what teenagers are doing.

If we are speaking about a highclass woman(not a girl)with confidence and she know she can be around with a bitchy attitude, it wont work. She is bitchy, because she knows that she gets the attention. She also grabs his attention.

The solution is simple, pay no attention. If she is bitchy, fine ignore it, do your standard rutine, show her that her attitude doesnt affect you. Take the control the moment she let you in and you will disarm her. Sneaky.

If you get angry and want to get back at her, it shows that she holds power over you- her demeanor can affect your demeanor. Have an internal locus of control and whatever you say - make sure it is dismissive or playful but NEVER rude. Rudeness= low value.


Remember, you control the frame, you control your emotions, not her.

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This is what works for me. You have to be Yin as well as Yang. A grounded man is also feminine. Master yourself and you master reality because your perception is all that there is. A woman isn't a bitch, see her as a child, someone in great need of a real friend in this fake wold. Study the world, realize it's mechanical parts and digest it all! All the great PUAs have this in common and it's why they engulf people in their frame. Teach a woman how to fish, teach her social dynamics, teach her that life is worth living again if she would just step out of her small frame. Give her this frame: "Emotions aren't god, they are here to tell us that something is wrong and needs to be fixed" - Mystery. This has worked over and over for me. ALWAYS HAVE THE BIGGER FRAME! She will thank you even if she never applies any of your alpha wisdom, but be careful, she might want your babies. haha.

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