Hi guys, haven't seen any recent thread on sticking points on this, so I'm going to start a new one.

Basically I have a solid, yet still slightly hit and miss, standard approach and chat game. However, my dancefloor game is almost abysmal, and its funny because I can dance reasonably well. I have almost no confidence at all anymore approach and grind girls, open on the dancefloor etc. I just am very reluctant to show my interest so blatantly when I have no idea if she is as well or not. I heard and researched lots of tips and stuff esp. from Gambler. However I just don't have confidence to do anything in the dancefloor. I had last month a top night and made out with two girls. Yes that isn't real gaming but its great confidence building, social proof and making out with hotties isn't exactly horrible.

I'm not looking so much for tips and ways to attract girls on the dancefloor, as things and objectives to gradually build my confidence, same way as guys who are shy approaching women are encouraged to approach a bunch of girls and run any opener on them, the newbie mission etc.

I'm just tired of being so frustrated on the dancefloor and seeing these AFCs every night having more success than I am

Dance floor=Loud Music= No chance to talk. In order for a girl to KNOW she likes you, she has to hear you talk. Girls will grind their ass on pretty much anyone cause they can feel like a "bad girl" but still be safe. Keep doing what you're doing and stay away from the dance floor. Be around it.

Plus, a dance floor is going to create a lot of opportunity for interrupts. A girls friends come up and start dancing with her, someone starts building a circle around themselves dancing, she gets tired, etc. All things that you would ideally like to avoid...