Hey

Does anybody have any material for how to break into a very emotional stressed out chick, without coming across too needy?

Iam trying to get into regular pattern of dates with this girl, but shes going through a shit load of shit, and I just think that conventional texts/ phone calls are not working in keeping her attention.

any suggestions welcome...

I once got an emo chick by seeming like I cared about her problems but as well as constantly DHVing myself by showing her my optimistic view on life. It was flipping scary cause at one point she threatened to kill herself but in the end wanted the D...

My advice, just don't do it. Too much of a hassle.

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Two words: Carpe Diem

Cheers Syx, Already putting that into effect.

I was reading up on on straw man tech, but what do you do if they dont tell you about the boyfriend, and even go as far as denial of one, can the strawman technique or something like it still be used?

I think she dont tell me about her boyfriends stuff because she dont feel comfortable telling me, she has already said I am judgmental..... from my point of view: how can I not judge her, when she was dating me for a month before telling me she was already with a boyfriend(1st relationship with was 2 years ago)

But also if a girl dont tell you, is that a sign that she potentially just wants a f-buddy instead of a relationship? lol
Cheerio

Here's the thing about emotional girls in general that I've found. They just really want they attention. They love it. Yeah yeah, I know it's wrong to say but I can't help the fact that it's true.

The way I see it, the only reason a girl wouldn't tell someone they have a boyfriend intentionally is because they love the attention they get from guys. If they just openly scare guys off by telling them they have a boyfriend well then, bye bye attention.

As for the strawman tech, there's no need. The tech was designed for girls who are in full on BF/HUBBY mode, pointing out flaws in their relationship. If shes anything like the emotional chicks I know, she just flys through boyfriends anyways, not REALLY caring about them or the state of their relationship but glad to have some attention from someone(and perhaps the drama). All it depends on whose attention she values more.

Sorry if it sounds harsh, but I'm an outsider looking in.

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Two words: Carpe Diem

I have to agree fully with Syx. Emotional chicks are that way for attention seeking mostly, Ive been around more than a few myself. Everyday they have a new problem. Girls like this are full of negative energy, and they seek positive energy from someone else help to compensate this. My advice is: get out quick, its just a waste of your time and energy!

Youre words are gold Syx!
I didnt log on since my last post, and few things have kinda happened, but still no grandslam activity, but i know it could be around the corner....

will keep you guys posted but first big EMERGENCY Q (for another chick Im tryin to hit, first date was good, but been difficult to arrange the second anyways called her just now, but she didnt pick up fone... do i leave a text, wait for her to reply AHHH i forgot the gameplay on this, i read it here some where!?!? help?

peace