every now and then i get a "you look tired" even when i don't feel tired! ( this doesn't happen often, but its annoying and i find it just plane rude)

i have sensitive eyes and they go blood shot real easily, so maybe that's why.

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You could try just mentioning something about this big project you're working on at work all week and now you're unwinding because its Friday night. As long as its interesting and not something about crunching numbers.

it will show that youre dedicated to your work and you can DHV.

Ignore it and move forward. It is a shit test, and a statement that has absolutely no other purpose than to test your frame (unless they are genuinely worried about you being tired). You can literally just ignore it as if you've never heard it before and move onto the next topic.

Yup, get me a redbull and we will fly all night.

Maybe work out why you look tired and try to stop it from happening.

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It happens to me as well. It's a form of DLV called "projection". It's when someone projects a negative quality onto you in order to lower your value, sometime unintentionally.

I was out with this girl at a club and was actually enjoying myself and she continually kept sayig to me "You look like your not having a good time." Not only was her assessment of me incorrect, but it's just a negative self-fullfilling thing to say to someone. Like you are trying to convince them they are having a bad time or something. Why not just ask them "What's wrong?" if indeed you are concerned that they are bored or uncomfortable.

But to be fair, I don't smile much, and sometimes people will just say things based on what they see with their eyes. They see that your eyes are bloodshot or you have bags and that might just be how you naturally look. I always have dark circles under my eyes. Many people do. And I get plenty of sleep. It makes me feel really self-conscious when people talk about it because I know that it looks weird to them, like I'm sick or something, and they feel compelled to call me out for it because it is so noticeable and offputting to them. But then I realize that to them they don't really realize they are insulting someone. They think they are just making an honest observation and they haven't really thought out how that comment might affect you.

It reminds me of when people ask a woman with a big stomach if she is pregnant. That's such a rude thing to say because if you are obviously pregnant, then it goes without saying. What they are REALLY saying is "I hope you are pregnant and not just that FAT!"

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Delivery for this is key but its a great way to fix that, or just say ok??? very sarcastically like what she said was weird. But I think ignoring it could make her say it again in 20 mins and you dont want that

Stating the obvious here! "Visine"

Other than that, turn it on her "Aww, you're cute but you're gonna have to do better than that to get me into bed honey!"

Or as mentioned before make it into a DHV "A couple days a week I wake up early and take coffee to homeless people before I go to work/school!


Peace...

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you can say one of the following:

1) yawn and cover your mouth(remeber your manners) and say ''no shit'' then follow up with u stayed up late for whatever

2) which is my personal favourite and a great neg : "well you see honey i get tired when someone isnt intelligent enough to hold up conversatiom''

and remember CONFIDENCE is key

I'd just say "Wild night" & turn it into a DHV. Simple and good.

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You should just amplify the frame. As soon as she says that look her in the eye and like instantly fake "fall asleep" on her shoulder with you arms around her neck and like make snoring sounds. then wake up making mulching sounds and notice your surrounding then instantly be like super surprised and have like wide open eyes and act like you don't know where the fuck you are and wtf is going with a serious/alert face and ask questions like "where am i?" And "how did i get here?" and then say to her "you must have bored me to sleep!"(punishment for her shit test). And if you want you can just be like I'm going back to sleep. You'll get a good laugh

Go to bed earlier.

"I'm not, but come 'ere and gib me a backrub anyways babeh!"

"Oy you know how it is. Working in the spice mines can take a toll on you some days"

Don't over think it. You don't have to think of some DHV scenerio, or her ulterior motives or consider it an insult. It's just a thing 'people saaaay'. Like "how are you?". Or "Welcome to the party" or "I know!"

It's neutral. Keep it simple, make a real conversation instead.

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"Come make me feel better." - put her hand on your cock and smile.

I like the wild night response too.

Active_snorlax, you are a genius i can imagine myself doing that. "zzzzzzzzz where am i, you must have board me to sleep" lolz

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