What should I do?
Should I abort?

So basically I met this girl at my university. We had nice convos when we met.
She always seemed excited to see me.

I noticed a few IOI's. She kept eye contact. Her pupils dilate around me. She introduced me to friends and often ask me questions. Anytime we hung out, she'd ask me what I'm gonna do later. like, " are you just gonna chill here?" or " are you leaving now?" She'd also laugh at most of the things i say. Even things I dont consider funny lol.

Her friends claim she's a bad texter. So, via text I would flirt with her and she'd normally flirt back. She's generally responsive although sometimes she takes an entire day to reply and every once in a while she may not reply.

She's busy and usually gets back to me so i didnt make a big deal when she didnt reply

So, one day, we have lunch together and her friends happened to be there, idk if this is good or bad.

Anyways i asked about any parties going on and she mentioned one and she was unsure if she's going. Later i told her to go to the party with me. She said she still wasn't sure if she's going. i went with my buddies. I found out later that she went but she didnt tell me...


Then a few weeks later, after some flirting i told her to go shopping with me and help me pick out a gift for my aunt. She never replied.

At that point i didnt know if I should think she declined my invite or forgot to get back to me, since she's a bad texter.

I saw her later on and she acted normal around me. We talked for a bit. She did ask me questions, to get to know me a little better. Idk at this point, should I abort? Do you think she's not interested?

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No problem holmes!

From what it sounds like, she wants to be interested in you, so you just need to given her a reason to be! I know its hard to do this with an attractive girl or a girl you like, but you cant act desperate. Play it cool, and try to demonstrate value to her and show that in fact she should be the one chasing you. Maybe go out to a party and talk to other attractive girls, talk to her mates, especially guy mates and gain their validation.

From past experiences similar to this, when i was chasing after the girl, she didnt want me because it was too easy for her, and she knew she could have me when she wanted, which didnt create value to the task of going for me. However when i made it difficult for her to get my attention, and made her work for it then she suddenly become obsessed with me. Try to switch about who holds the power with some negs and you'll be surprsied at the results. Despite if she is a bad texter or not, if you are on her mind then she'll want to text you

Zeus

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Wise men don't need advice. Fools won't take it. - Benjamin Franklin

Yea, that's true about making it too easy for them. They lose interest. Not only that, but they know that they can play their other cards at the same time since they already have you in their back pocket. Then if things don't work out with the hotter guys, or they get bored, they can come back to you and have you buy them shit. This is how the female mind operates.

What you need to do is continue building rapport with her and stop asking her out. Then paint a mental picture for her of how cool you are and all the fun things you are doing in your life WITHOUT including her or inviting her to be a part of it. Tell her that you went up to the lake last weekend with your buddies and went to all these houseboat parties and got wasted and jet ski'd. Then tell her you're going up there again in two weeks. Keep saying stuff like that for a while and DHV yourself without coming on to her and then see if you start getting more ioi's.

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