This technique is by no means perfected, i'm actually just developing it at the moment. I wanted to... Eh... Beta test it. I'm going to be implementing it for the next couple months and i wanted a couple different perspectives. There's no greater proof of concept than a routine thats been effective for more than one PUA.


The trick plays off of women's need to categorize everyone they meet and their inability to distinguish between emotions while avoiding their insecurities or triggering any "red flags". Red flags are important to women, far more than they are to men. The typical man has a couple red flags, if she talks in a deep voice and has a bulge in her pants, if her moods swing rapidly and she seems to need professional help, or if she's ugly as shit.... Aaaand thats about it. But women are like a minefield of red flags. If you're romantic for too long, it means you're soft and "just not her type". If you're naughty for too long, you're a pervert. If you make too much small talk, you're "nice but uninteresting", "not adventurous enough", or (again) "just not her type". There's endless things to avoid, "shit tests" they put you through to see if you're "good enough" and you just might drive yourself mad trying to keep up with all of them—especially when they change from woman to woman. But what you have to understand is that these "red flags" are NEVER an honest representation of how they feel about you. In most cases, they're based in 2 things:

A.) Excuses to sabotage themselves and keep them from what they want.
B.) Worry about what the world thinks of them, what you think of them, what their friends think of them, etc.

Yeah, you heard me right! Most of the time they don't honestly believe in half the crap they put you through! But women are raised much differently than men and what society thinks of them comes to mean something entirely different than it does you or i. They're constantly judging themselves and you based on a standard that society has forced upon them and it can be the most freeing thing in the world for them to throw that to the wind and act on their impulses uninhibited! Say that directly to most women and they'll laugh and say "nice try". Thats because one of the most common beliefs reinforced by the media, television, and every shitty ex boyfriend they've ever had is that men are only out to manipulate them to get into their pants, with no regard for her wants or needs. So the direct approach is never going to work, in fact its going to screw you over because then she's going to be suspicious, even if you really have her enjoyment and happiness in mind too. So the best option is to take the indirect, unconscious route. Mind you, this is based in actual science.

The left hemisphere of the brain acts as a serial processor, gathering information in a very linear, rational way. Its this hemisphere thats responsible for your logical reasoning, as well as those "red flags" and shit tests—all are part of the rational ego. Take it away and all thats left is the right hemisphere, a parellel processor that takes information in raw form. Its responsible for sensations, feelings, emotions, and everything you want a girl to experience when you're making a move on her. Men have all the same parts in our brain—the difference is, we have about a third of the connections between them. (just like we have about a third as many nerves in our junk... tough break.) That means women's emotional side has a much greater impact on their rational side, and vice versa. What this means is there is a greater chance of cognitive distortion, i.e. irrational thinking, as well as a greater emotional impact from what they think and believe. Left brained women tend to have quite a bit more red flags / excuses / shit tests, but since their logical brain is a SERIAL processor that means that there's only 1 flow of information to halt before she defaults to the right half of her brain. The longer it takes for her rational brain to make a decisive conclusion, the more of an emotional impact its going to have on her. The few things she CAN conclude on then, have a much greater impact in the long run and slip past her rational defenses.

At the moment, i've developed 1 method to do just that. I call it deframing. A frame is the rational context from which a belief is expressed or an idea is thought. A frame is also how we perceive people, places, things, and organize them based on our current beliefs and understandings. Consider it the subjective box around an objective observation. Sending mixed messages is a way of deframing, but you have to have a sense of congruency to your actions. Whenever there is something the rational mind cannot understand, it either attempts to categorize it with a preassumed emotional pretext from memory or create an entirely new emotional pretext, i.e. raw experience. Whatever method you're using, you want to avoid making her feel like you're a threat, unless you want to be grouped in with pre-existing fears, guilt or shame. Fortunately, the more mixed your messages are, the less she can determine anyway! You want to keep the amygdala busy, so it won't tell her hypothalamus you're dangerous. Even though you are.

A common mixed message is the typical "push-pull", where you alternate acting attracted to her and disinterested or disgusted by her. It works wonders, but theres a lot more you can do. Try saying something romantic, followed by an innuendo, followed by a bit of small talk, tease her for something, compliment her for something, repeat. This isn't a surefire cycle, theres a lot that can be done to improve it, but its what i have so far! With any luck, you'll have disabled her ability to filter what information she lets through and what she doesn't! Understand that this may frustrate some women, especially the ones who put a high importance in understanding their surroundings. When this happens, comfort them. Make them feel safe WITHOUT a minefield of red flags. After all, thats what they wanted to begin with... someone to protect them so their fears don't have to.

One last thing. Don't be a dick. You might be able to slip past her defenses, rewrite her mind and get whatever the hell you want from a woman but theres no reason not to make it enjoyable for her as well. The biggest lie in the world is that it can't always be win-win.