The thing that is very confused in my mind as also to many other guys in the community is about qualification...

Sometimes when i am in A3 and i have to do it...
i feel like i am interviewing her...cause i ask her a number of questions...

My question that i would really appreciated if you answer me is...
How do i get over this...?


P.s.
If there is another post that talks about A3 and qualification i would really be happy to send me to it...

Thanks ...

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qualifying a girl is just showing interest in her, A3 however suggests using qualifiers to get a girl to actively participate in demonstrating qualities for you to qualify her on

quality = an essential or distinctive characteristic, property, or attribute

qualify = let someone know they posses a quality

qualifier = a question or statement used to bait someone into revealing a quality so that you can qualify them

disqualify = let someone know they don't posses a quality

in A3, the format follows bait hook reel release, or,

qualifier - (she dhvs) - qualify - dis-qualify

so it would be,

you: you don't cook do you?

her: yeah I love cooking, I blah blah blah cook and make food blah blah (she tries to qualify herself for you showing the quality you wanted, aka dhv's herself)

you: wow, that is soo hot, a girl who can cook... ahhh im in love (qualify)
you: do you burn food though? cause if so im totally not in love (disqualify)

this ^ is the format of A3, you start A3 after you see 3 ioi's, every qualifier should require more and more investment, and you should test/build compliance (start by attempting to isolate), once she is investing in a conversation with you and taking your bait, keep increasing the investment and relating to her answers, eventually just ask the old MM big investment qualifier after 3 major ioi's (she laughs, she touches you, she follows, she re-initiates a conversation when you stop)

''you know you're very beautiful, but beauty is common, I mean, look around, what's important is a great energy and outlook on life, so tell me, what do you have going on for you more then your looks?''

if she answers this ^ question and starts stating qualities, this is when you try to kiss her, once she has qualified to this question, you are in c1

okay so your right that you defenatly dont want to be asking her to many questions. that will make you apear as boring and trying to get her approval. instead you want to make open ended statements that will make her ask YOU questions. this will change her perspective of you and make it look like she is chasing you and wanting your approval.
this is kinda difficult to do so you should practice this a lot

What always works is asking a girl about her qualities other than looks.

Example (after IOI's):

You: "You have a cute face but I get the feeling there is more to you. What kind of person are you anyway? What do you think is your best quality?"
Girl: "Smart, funny, hard working".
You: "Really, I like that. Tell me more, make my day"
Girl: "blablabla"
You: "I notice you keep looking people right in their eyes while you talk. Usually, this says you are a sincere and confident person".
Girl: "blablabla"
You: "So what do you wanna be grow up?" (Mystery's classic qualifier).
Gril: "Blablabla"
You: "Respect! I like you. You would make a great friend"
Girl: "blablabla".
You: "Let me ask you...soon I will be buying a present for a good friend of mine. I am not yet sure what to buy her. I want to have her something she really likes, she deserves it."
You: "What woud be the present you would like to get from a good friend? I need some advice here".
Girls: "blablablba"
You: "Really?? And how would that make you feel?"
Girl: "blablaba"

Alright, enough qualfication! Now it is time to kino escalate (trust test, palm routine, etc).

At some point the girl might ask you a question. You can either respond and quicly follow up stacking or neglect her question while you keep stacking forward. This keeps her mind occupied while she consciously or inconsciously aknowledges/accepts your strong frame. Notice also how you run your game on her regardless of what she says or replies. It will work. However, it is probably even better to observe what she exacly says and open threads that are more related to her answers.
It is important that you are the one who leads the conversation whereas she is the one who follows with her qualifications.

After a few minutes you will need to transition into a more natural conversation, thus throwing qualifiers to her less often. At this point you pass the qualification phase and you are in the comfort buidling phase.