Hi beloved community

How would you handle the follow situation and what do you think about it( and her):

After a year, i texted a good (woman)friend of mine, she replied (and also called,said sorry about something that caused our no-talking-period).
I asked her out (for a drink), but she cant make it because of work. After that she asked me to join her and her friends* on a fridaynight out- i said yes.

*regarding friends: for now is just one of her girl-friends, dont know for anybody else (lack of info, she might have used plural (friends) on purpose.)

Thoughts?

Advice?

That is a tough one. The last girl who I met up with her and friends with blew me out in 10 minutes and I never heard from her again. It was brutal. You know her, and she knows her friends, but YOU don't know her friends. I didn't understand how to handle that scenario at that time. But I've since learned my lesson.

What you need to do is get in good with her friends. I'd actually suggest ignoring the girl you know to an extent, and just focus on getting to know her friends. In doing so, you make yourself the center of attention because you are the new guy trying to get to know everyone.

The moment you stand on the sidelines and just kind of try to talk to the girl you know and ignore her friends, they will do everything they can to steal the girl's attention away from you and shun you. So put on your party hat and be ready to be Mr. Fucking Personality, because you basically have to treat this as a giant 5 set that you are running your routine on, and the girl you know will be your eventual target.

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Great post.

I was thinking about getting to know her friends and having a great time, while kind of fishing out a chance for her to make a move on me. I dont want to do anything, because she is the one responsible for no-talking-period and also she is the one asking me to join them.


what should i be careful about?