hey everyone,

I need your help with the situation I'm in now. I met this chick at this party (really hot, HB 9.5) and I got her number. We started texting and I asked her to get dinner with me and she said that she already had gotten dinner. The thing is that she takes a long time to answer texts (like 2 or three hours) and I'm not sure if she is doing that because she is playing hard to catch or if she is not as interested as I am in her. Since the day I asked her out I've seen her a couple of times around my university campus and whenever I talked to her she kept smiling, complimenting me and giving me this really affectionate hugs, but boyyyyy is she cold at texting. Now I wanted to ask her out a second time but she told me that she was home (and she texted it like she was saying: "THank God, now you can't ask me out coz I'm home and far away from university campus"). I know that if she flakes twice, I should move on but the thing is that she is really warm whenever I meet her (or at least that's what I think, she kinda gives me this IOIs that she likes me) but for example she never texts me first, never invites me to a party with her and I was thinking of texting her and asking her out one more time or just leave the bitch and move on? She's hot and all that but I don't wanna keep playing this game for nothing. I am thinking more of just letting it go and move one, do you guys agree? Or should I ask her out one more time in person and not through texting?

I would say you could ask her out again, but not for dinner. Find something completely different, i personally hate dinner dates. You sit on opposite parts of the table forced to talk about things you really do not want to talk about. So rather take her out for a coffee, to some bar (for some drinks), a zoo or something where you can do something. Like museum, paintball or something like that.

And no to movies, if you want movies. See the movie first then go for the dinner. It maybe seems to be too boring. You should also go for a F-close at the first date, kino escalate and be more physical.