Dont know if this is the place for this but i hop so. I met this girl at a bar last week. Pretty sure she was attracted to me so i went and talk to her. (a little drunk BTW) Well i thought everything went well. When i ask for her number she said no and that she wasn't going to take mines but ask for my address. I said no and pretty much walked away. I seen her two times this weekend at a different bar. The first time she sat behind me and i seen her when i turned around. I think she sat there on purpose but i don't know. Second time i seen her was yesterday and she was walking pass me but stop and asked if i was still mad at her. Don't really remember what i said i was really drunk last night but I'm pretty sure i ignored her or just looked at her.

What does this girl want, why does she make her self noticeable to me?

Women gain validation from men approaching and chasing them. That being said when you approached her she got her validation and true to cat string theory, she dropped you! When you decided to stop chasing her she lost that validation and is now seeking it back. She's being choosy/twatty...really shes just being a typical woman.

Sounds shes into you but shes not fully convinced You may have build a bit more before you shoot for the number.

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I honestly think this girl is down to fuck. Why? Because she asked you for your address. Why does that matter? Because after she fucks you, she doesn't want to keep in touch with you. If she is hanging out with you, she definitely wants you. Her BL is clear. Forget the number and try to close that same night.

Good luck.

Kinda had the same feeling but ive never had a one night stand as sad as that sounds. How do you go about a one night stand? or is there somewhere on here i can read about it because i will

Without words she is communicating with you. She's saying "I want to fuck you but you need to do certain things before I let that happen." She's basically drawing you into her frame and making you jump through hoops. Push pull this one a little more, kino her, then go for the f-close.

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What are the certain thing she wants me to do? Are those things push and pull and kino.

Pretty sure i have her chasing me right now because she approached me but i pretty sure I have to make the next approach, will see.

Is this normal for a girl that just wants to fuck because I've never had sex with a girl that i wasnt in a relationship with. Do they all play theses games

Yes, it's definitely normal that girls want to have sex just as we do. In general, you're going to have to hook her, use any push-pull method you want, and have her come to your place or you go to hers.

My ex always used to get pissed because I'd invite her over friday night and just want to fuck and not go out. She liked fucking, but she wanted me to take her out on the town, get out of the house, THEN fuck.

OP, you are trying to start the race at the finishline. You just want to take one step and be done racing. But it don't work like that. You have to run the whole race. You need to talk to this girl a bit. Give her some mixed signals and do some kino. Once you've done that sufficiently, then invite her to someplace, ANY PLACE, besides your home. Once you've done that you can then bring her home.

I'm sorry, but "Can I get your number so I can call you over to fuck?" is not going to work most of the time.

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Move on dude. There are plenty of girls

nah im going to hook up with this girl. I know shes down, plus i like the tension between us. She wants it as much as i do. Not really worried when this happens seeing how yes there are plenty of girls...i live in a college town. So girls are crazy easy to pick up. I going to keep having fun and when the opportunity comes I'm going to make my move.

Hate a girl that plays hard to get but love it at the same time for some reason. Defiantly gotten chicks that looked better that didn't play games but i think thats why im attracted to this girl because she deny me, and the whole time i was gaming this girl i knew i had it.

you played it well. if she keeps doing it, you might want to open her again and ask her, "are you stalking me?"

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"Are you stalking me?....Because that would be terrific."

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logistics

just ask her ''what she is doing tonight'', or ''what are you up to later'' if she doesn't have ''something'' and you get an I don't know, or she makes it clear that she has free time later, good sign

how do you have a one night stand?, ask her home and sleep with her

same with the number thing, go for the girl instead of her number, the number doesn't mean anything, it's just a way for you to contact her

a meet up > number